Hi All.
I’m looking for some support and maybe even reassurance. I have proteinuria and my last blood test showed my EGFR has gone to 42! And it has stayed at 42 since July last year. The doctor said it wasn’t time to worry and if it gets below 30 she will refer me and didntgove menmuch advice on how to handle this. All day I’ve been so down and upset, I feel like I’ve been handed a death sentence. I’m 27 in a serious relationships and we’d love kids one day and I just feel my whole future has been stripped away from me and I’m struggling massively. I’m going to increase my exercise, fluids and reduce salt on my diet and hope it all makes a difference. Any kind words anyone to calm me down and make me smile?
Sorry to hear about your kidney issues @Becca6510 - unfortunately Diabulimia is a hidden condition and as you feel no pain you don't realise what's really going on, yet the damage caused can by catastrophic and only realised later in life. There is so much pressure on young folk to look a certain way, if only we could take social media and media in general out of the equation then we could all be happy in our own skin and not feel pressured to act/look a certain way. What's hard about this condition is that many have it and live in denial about what damage is being caused, I believe it would help those caught up in it to learn from those who've come through it and what impact it's had on their life, so talking about it is so important.
The good news is that with good and stable control the complications can be suspended and often reversed so please don't beat yourself up over what happened in the past, concentrate on keeping your control as good as you can, lean on your diabetes team more, getting your HbA1c down and controlled is a good plan to help keep you focused. Look up Dr Berstein, he's type 1, in his 80's and has reversed his complications, his approach may seem extreme to many however it's worked well for him and he's living well for it.
Any idea why it's crept up and are there are any changes you can make to help change things ?
I think if you do some research on him he does have alot wisdom and he is an optimistic guy, really we all have to be optimistic, it's all about getting back on the horse and getting in the saddle again, we all get knocked off at times, I found my first year with t1 pretty dark, I couldn't see a light at the end of the tunnel and felt quite alone, i've got through that but am always mindful of where i've been and where I am now and don't take anything for granted.
Dust yourself down and give yourself a good talking to, you can do this and you will be ok, but don't let it take over your life and let it get in the way.
Please talk to us though, if you need help sorting out your HbA1c then tell us what's happening right now so what insulins are you taking, what's your daily readings like and see if we can offer any pointers ? Have you done DAFNE yet ?
@Becca6510 That's great news about the pump, I only had the 640g Medtronic offered me but would of taken anything tbh, it's really helped me greatly, still takes effort to tweak and adjust, but once you settle in with the adjustments it is a great help. I think i'm a bit of a control freak too which goes against the very being of t1 as you can do the same thing twice and get different results each time, maybe try a bit of meditation or exercise ? I exercise alot and that helps me cope better mentally with all the trials and tribulations t1 throws my way each day !
Hi @Becca6510, that is a shock for you.
One thing to remember is that a number of people have reported complications getting worse initially after they really tightening up their diabetes control and then as they continued with good control the complications stared to reverse. A common example is with eye complications - and i assume you have had your eyes checked very carefully as well as your kudneys?
Not saying that all complications reverse completely for everyone necessarily but many get some reversal. @Mel dCP has one such story.
So i would be saying that there is room for some optimism.
Personally Dr Bernstein is the person who has helped me the most in all the 52 years i have been on insulin and I personally rate his 'Solution' incorporating his type of diet as more important overall than my insulin pump, which i rate as second most important.
You have an opportunity to get things as right as possible. And that means comparing diets, management to see which sctually works best, not anecdotally, but from solid research.
Anything less and you would be deceiving yourself.
You Are of course free to do what you like, but having this shock is a rude reminder.
I will leave it there, wish you all the best in getting your pump, and please keep posting and asking questions, whether it be about pumps, diets, what i or someone else has written.
You have a lot to deal with. Step at a time!
Please ask your doctor about protein intake. My understanding is that one's kidneys need to be quite badly off before protein needs restricting, so please take their advice.
Following Dr Bernstein might involve more than one meal a day, as he stresses that we need all the important minerals and vitamins too. He is not a fan of meals closer than some 6 hours apart, but there needs to be that balance of food to meet all needs of the body. Perhaps a dietitian could work with you to ensure that you are taking sufficient nutrients in such a diet?
Yes I have been thinking of seeing a dietician but the one at my local centre seems a bit... dippyputs me off! As I want to get serious. Could you private message me the info you have on dr Bernstein’s methods? I have done some research but haven’t found loads
Just to say things can get better. My kidneys shut down at one point due to acidosis. That was in 2011 and my eGFR never got above 42 after that. You can imagine my surprise when my blood test at the end of Feb this year said my eGFR had risen to 60. I nearly fell off my chair! Hope things get better for you tooHi All.
I’m looking for some support and maybe even reassurance. I have proteinuria and my last blood test showed my EGFR has gone to 42! And it has stayed at 42 since July last year. The doctor said it wasn’t time to worry and if it gets below 30 she will refer me and didntgove menmuch advice on how to handle this. All day I’ve been so down and upset, I feel like I’ve been handed a death sentence. I’m 27 in a serious relationships and we’d love kids one day and I just feel my whole future has been stripped away from me and I’m struggling massively. I’m going to increase my exercise, fluids and reduce salt on my diet and hope it all makes a difference. Any kind words anyone to calm me down and make me smile?
Just to say things can get better. My kidneys shut down at one point due to acidosis. That was in 2011 and my eGFR never got above 42 after that. You can imagine my surprise when my blood test at the end of Feb this year said my eGFR had risen to 60. I nearly fell off my chair! Hope things get better for you too
No, I am a Type 2. Had Diabetic Burnout a couple of years ago too but have gotten back on the horse so to speak! I was diagnosed in 2007 but was probably Diabetic long before. Its a constant battle so know how you feel. I am unlucky enough to have a few complications due to my diabetes (Macular changes, Peripheral Neuropathy to name a couple). Just keep doing what you're doing. Try to keep positive and know that in the long run every little victory will help keep you healthy in mind and bodyThat made me smile so much, I’ve been so active these past two days, gym loads, no salt, eating well, better control with all the activity. Just hope they stay stable or maybe gonup. I hope I’ll be as lucky as you! Are you type one?
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