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New to forum, feeling ill, miserable and looking for advice.

GemmaDevon

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Hello :)

I don't know if I am in the right place but I am at the point where I have to vent somewhere! And hopefully as a result may get some much needed advice/reassurence.

Over the last 2 years I have put on 7 Stone in weight,after losing 8. Im constantley trying to lose weight and I do, but it always comes back and i dont seem to have any control over it even though Im a 29 year old active female. although i have policystic overy syndrome and my hormones were all over the place and my appetite was increased I did, up until last week blame myself, I have also been ill an awful lot, more than ive ever been..lots of minor things like shingles, chest infections, serious colds and skin infections etc. However the last 6 months, I have just "felt ill" . tired all the time ( I just felt i was lazy ) Thirsty ( I HAVE to have a drink on me at all times and as a result spend half my life going for a wee!) and my vision is getting really bad to the point where i struggle to read a book more than 5 mins before I blur.

I got to the end of my rope last week and got really upset, had a conversation with my Sister who told me that my fathers mum died of diabetes related kidney failure, she herself is insulin resistant and suffered with gestational diabetes, as did my mother with me, and that I need to see my GP. I made an appointment for Wednesday.

My husband yesterday came home with a blood glucose testing kit from the chemist to give me some idea if i was looking at things the way I should, and so i had something solid to tell the doctors. When I got up it read 10.2..since then it has levelled at about 6.2. From the info Ive found online these dont seem high enough to get a diagnosis for full blown diabetes.

I have gone from relief, in thinking that I might finally getting an explanation to why I feel so terrible all the time and in turn get the treatment and help I need, to thinking that im going to go to the docs and get laughed at when my blood tests come back, and sent away still feeling like I do.

Has anybody got a similer tale?..Any feedback to my situation would be greatley appreciated, im going slightley bonkers with it all. :shock:
 
Re: New to forum, feeling ill, miserable and looking for adv

Hi Gemma

Welcome to the forum.

I'm pre-diabetic and a 'newbie' myself but have also been experiencing eye problems. I'm not confident to give you an answer about your levels - it depends a lot on when they were taken (how long after eating). However, I would say you're doing the right thing in seeing the doctor. From experience it's not worth ignoring symptoms hoping they will just go away. Your doctor may want you to make an appointment for a glucose tolerance test before confirming any diagnosis so you may not have a definitive answer this week.

I'm sure someone else will be along soon with some sensible advice and more support.

In the meantime, try to stay positive and read around the forum to get some idea of questions to ask your GP.

Take care.

Dawn
 
Re: New to forum, feeling ill, miserable and looking for adv

Hi Gemma, ooo you poor thing you have had it rough for a while. You need to make an appointment with your doctor, when you have explained your symptoms he may well want to take blood tests, at that point let us know and do come back for adivise. It may well be your diet is causing you problems, or thyroid but either way the only person you need to see is your doctor.
Good luck honey
 
Re: New to forum, feeling ill, miserable and looking for adv

Your doing the right thing Gemma seeing your doctor on Wednesday, good luck!
 
Re: New to forum, feeling ill, miserable and looking for adv

Hello Gemma

Welcome to the board :)

I'm sorry that you're having such a rough time. Good luck with your doctor's appointment on Wednesday.
 
Re: New to forum, feeling ill, miserable and looking for adv

Hi Gemma, being able to pin a label on what is going wrong makes fighting back so much easier.

So Good Luck with your appointment on Wednesday and, although I would not wish Diabetes on anyone, at least if that is the diagnoses you have already found somewhere that can give you all the help, support and encouragement you may need.
 
Re: New to forum, feeling ill, miserable and looking for adv

Welcome Gemma, and rest assured that NO-ONE will laugh at you whatever any blood test results show.
Our own tests using our meters aren't that reliable, so the doctor may do a different type of test to establish if you're diabetic or not. Once you know, let us know and we'll probably be able to help with tips on diet and such.
Good luck!
 
Re: New to forum, feeling ill, miserable and looking for adv

Gemma
you do need to see the doctor. Write down all you symptoms before you go so you don't forget anything
now comes the bit where everyone will tell you i'm crackers: A lot of my reading lately has convinced me that eating a low carb diet is the best way to good health. I've just ordered the book "Life Without Bread" from Amazon. In that book, a doctor describes how changing the diet helped people with many different conditions. It certainly helps with weight.I'm always battling with mine. I've not lost that much, about 3 stones, but I've kept it off.
The Atkins books will show you what a low carb diet entails and contrary to what you've probably read elsewhere, it's actually perfectly asafe. If it weren't, the Atkins Foundation would have been sued out of existance by now.
Do see the doc, Don't say a crazy grandmother has said that the Atkins diet might help. He'll probably think we are both nutters
Hana
 
Re: New to forum, feeling ill, miserable and looking for adv

Thankyou all for your replies :)

As suggested, I think a diagnosis would help me no end, an explanation and something to fight and no doubt help from the doctor. At the moment It feels like a snowball of things! if that makes sense, thankyou for your kind wishes and I shall be back to let you know how it went :)

Gem
 
Re: New to forum, feeling ill, miserable and looking for adv

Hello Gemma Welcome to the forum I am quite new to this D thingy and the guys on here are GREAT just ask and someone will help you, All the Best

Davide
 
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