Hi there.Hi!
I was feeling rubbish with hot and cold sweats and thought I was starting menopause so after a couple of weeks of feeling rubbish, eating chocolate and drinking lucozade to keep my energy levels up I finally booked myself a doctors appointment and was asked to attend hospital for a blood test.
I decided the blood test could wait, there was no rush so I got it done 2 days after being advised. Then everything went crazy!
Monday Doctor appointment
Tuesday slept all day on the sofa, I had no energy aand only went out to fetch my Daughter from college.
Wednesday my eyes were foggy this was a new experience, my Hubby came home from night shift and took me to get my bloods done, I wasn't going to take the chance and drive.
Thursday my vision was ok .... not great but I had to work, I had an event planned which only I could run. The Doctors surgery called me at 10am telling me I must get to the surgery asap. I told them I was working until 4pm, so carried on with my day, after all I had lucozade and chocolate to keep me going.
I then went to the surgery and sat waiting for over an hour, becoming more anxious ..... what was so important? The BANG .... I was told I was dangerously dehydrated, my blood was acidic and I was type 1 diabetic. I was instructed to go straight to hospital.
I drove home in tears, slammed the car door, slammed the house door, threw my phone, keys and bag into the lounge and sobbed my heart out on the stairs (new lounge carpet no shoes allowed).
Then my Hubby drove me to hospital where I sat in majors for 2 hours, once on a bed my blood pressure was low, a saline drip was put in place then I went all weak and woozy to rushed through to resuss. I had a lot of people around me, another canula was put in and a Doctor was squeezing a bag to get it in me quicker. I sent my Hubby home to our children.
By 3am I had 3 bags of saline and insulin was now being pushed in me, I then got moved to a ward with hourly obs done.
Why me? noone in my family had type 1, what did I do to myself? There is no way I had dehydrated myself, I was drinking 12 x 500ml a day! I was fit, active, lost 3 stone to keep myself healthy (still overwieght) was at the gym 3 times a week and swam twice a week as well as an active job!
8 bags of saline and 3 bags of insulin later I was broken hearted, couldn't control my anger, frustration, it felt like I had lost something and I was grieving. my level was 32! no idea what that meant!
Friday evening the drips were removed and injections started. What was I allowed to eat? I had no idea and the menu lady couldn't advise me as she was new. So I had cornflakes, BIG MISTAKE. My level was 14 then after eating it was 22 so no cornflakes for me. I had no idea what they meant by levels but I knew it was bad so again I felt guilty, I had made myself worse by eating!
Saturday - so now I've started to calm down, the ward staff were amazing, had no sleep due to hourly obs. The Diabetic team came to see me, this made my heart brake even more. I was told I'll be insulin dependant for life! She didn't leave me with anything as I was a wreck. I cried myself to sleep that night. The ward staff told me that the mental health team would visit me on monday, they never came.
Sunday - I've been moved to another ward to be with other diabetics. Three ladies were discussing which toes they were having removed, how was this supposed to help me? I sobbed, I'm going to lose my toes too? one lady was having her whole foot off! Will I lose my foot too? My Parents drove 3 hours to visit me, this was the hardest part, I felt that I had let them down, I couldn't be home with my children, my Hubby was running around trying to work, run the house, do the childcare, visit me, he was exhausted and it was all my fault. When my Parents left I cried myself to sleep again.
Monday I was informed I could go home at 10:30am after the diabetic team had been to see me. I had no idea how to look after myself, how was I going to cope? the team came to see me and said I was ready to go. I asked them .... how do I get my insulin? do I need to come back every 4 hours? they were confused as my notes stated that I had been shown how to use my pen. I saw my pen on friday night then it was lost with my folder. Staff were injecting me with syringes I didn't know what to do, how to set it up I just knew that I needed it.
2 hours later I was trained and then could leave but had to wait for the mental health team, the dietitian and 3 canulas to be removed. by 6pm the nurses asked why I hadn't gone home yet!!!!!! So I told them who I was told to wait for, the dietitian had gone home. There was noone available from the metal health team. So canualas were removed and I was discharged.
The drive home was scary, it was like being on a roller coaster, my eyes were blurry, nothing made sense. I got home and hugged my children then fell apart again. Had a nice relaxing bath and sobbed myself to sleep.
Tuesday - day one at home with very poor vision, feeling wobbly, having to sit a lot, still asking myself why me, what did I do wrong to make myself ill? how can I lose weight, get fit and still end up being a diabetic? how was I going to work? I'm self employed, I have to work there is no sick pay. I spent the day in tears, making a cup of tea for myself was hard as I couldn't see the rim of the cup, I had to feel which caused me to pour boiling water on my finger but no burns luckily.
Wednesday - my Hubby had to go to work, this was really scary, a friend came and spent most of the day with me.
Thursday - my first offical day on my own - my vision was still bad but by now my Hubby had bought me some tesco 3.5 reading glasses, I'm wearing these over the top of pound shop 1.5 reading glasses so now I can see, read, use my laptop.
As the week went on I woke every day and felt gutted as I couldn't see the clock, who knew what time it was! Double glasses to read a well lit clock!
Today is day 17 since being diagnosed. I'm no longer tearful. I'm still wearing double glasses though can't walk with them on as I get motion sickness. I've not been out of my home for 6 days as it's scary to step out, I'm safe in my home.
Monday I have a consultant appointment as 12 in one hospital followed by an appointment with my diabetic nurse as 2pm at another hospital.
Tuesday is bag packing day to visit family for Christmas.
Wednesday foot check and flu jab then venture out of the house for a 3 hour journey as a passenger in my Hubby's car which I'm dreading.
To top this all off my Mother in Law was rushed into hospital and she's awaiting an operation today for a ruptured aneurysm. My Hubby has been torn, leave me to go to his Mom or stay and carry on as his sibblings are there. This had made me feel even more guilty and very low in myself BUT I'm not tearful.
I've now learnt how to make a cup of tea and feed myself with blurry vision and have been advised to give my eyes at least another 2 weeks before seeking advice from the opticians.
Prescriptions have cost me a fortune, I've chased up my doctors surgery to find out when my exemption card will come, they haven't processed it yet so will be paying for me next prescription too.
There is an 8 month wait for retinal screening so I might find out how much it will cost if I go private.
Christmas will be strange this year and I know I've refered to my children a lot but they are 17 and 18 now. My Daughter is 100% reliant on me due to her anxiety issues and lack of confidence but she's starting to become independent, she's learning how to get herself too and from college. My Son is amazing, he is dyspraxic and has suddenly grown up, he seeked help from college to change his journey to and from as I was dropping him half way so he only had one bus to deal with. My Hubby has done his best to fully support them both whilst working and visiting me.
I'm very lucky to have an amazing family and I'm no longer angry with my condition. We are learning to deal with is as a family.
This was supposed to be a short post so I totally understand anyone who chooses not to read it. I'm also hoping that it will help anyone else out who have gone through the same process.
Thanks for reading. Onwards and Upwards to 2019!
You will get back to your old self soon. Getting out and about a bit will help, even if it a walk round the block. You'll soon be taught carb counting which will give you more freedom on food and flexibility to eat when you like.
Hope the new meter is the same type as your NHS one or you'll spend a fortune on test strips!
That was a bit of an adventure. Just one thing I want to say that no one else has, and that's that this really isn't your fault, you haven't done anything to cause it.
There has been a lot of publicity about diabetes in recent years that suggests that type 2 diabetes is caused by eating too many carbs, and being overweight. This can sometimes be the case, but some people with type 2 diabetes just have a gene that makes them insulin resistant.
Type 1 diabetes is about your beta cell no longer producing sufficient insulin, it's often an autoimmune thing, but not always, but it's not something you've done wrong, so please don't blame yourself.
You well learn how to manage, it's a bit of a steep learning curve, especially at first, but it will get easier. So have a good Christmas, and please don't feel guilty.
@MisplacedIdentity Hope you enjoyed Christmas day and are feeling slightly better.
Hi there.
I eas diagnosed in my 50's. And my whole experience very much mirrors your own. Apart from the fact that I had paid over £400 for two pairs of glasses that I never really wore . I had symptoms that got entangled truly with the menopause. So went along with it until it all came crashing down around my ears. I like you wore 3.5 specs just to get through my day at work for about 2 months after type 1 diagnosis. Once my sugars had stabilised all glasses including those I had spent a fortune on became totally unnecessary and now I don't wear any. I too spent days I'm hosp with all the drips etc. And nurses asking me how long I had been type 1 to which I replied I didn't know I was.
Less rambling. Hang on in there it will get much easier.
There are lots who know just how you feel.
Take care and good luck.
That does sound confusing - ask consultant to explain logic and what the plan is for support if your numbers rise again without insulin.
If you need lots of snacks without excercise then could be honeymoon period, or wrong insulin ratio or yes t2 as consultant suggests. Are they running gas and c-peptide tests?
That should have said Gad not gas, it's an antibody test that can indicate t1. C-peptide shows levels of insulin produced.
Glad you have contact with your team and they can support you through changes.
Thank you so much for your reply, everything you have stated makes sense and I'm beginning to get back to "normal" I'm no longer as bitter as I was immediately after diagnoses and discovering that I can still have a bit of chocolate when I want it. Just need to be able to drive again so I can work. Maybe 2 more weeks off work will do me goodHi @MisplacedIdentity, From Australia where everything is upside down!! From my experience as a type 1 diabetic, not as professional advice or opinion:
I have been on insulin for 52 years and still remember my own 'introduction' to diabetes in 1966!!
But.., to let you know that there is life after diagnosis, and happiness, joy and the ability to achieve things.
Your blood sugar levels (BSLs) are now very impressive, but as you say, hypos are more common. There is a very useful section on the Home page of this site, if you use the search box on the right upper section of the screen - and type in 'hypoglycaemia' (hypo = low, -gly = glucose, -aemia = in the blood) or 'hypos' for short. It takes time to 'fine tune' doses of insulin and how much you eat to help prevent hypos but trying to avoid them is best. Your health team is the most important source of help to you.
Our eyes/focus change when blood sugar levels (BSLs) are high. It can take some weeks for this to settle down once BSLs are nearer the normal range. Diabetics are generally advised not to have any measure and maybe change in spectacle prescriptions for at least 5 to 6 weeks after things have settled.
One step at a time: all of us have felt overwhelmed when we were first diagnosed. Trying to deal with all the information, emotion etc at once is impossible. So step by step, building on the experience you gain and information you receive. And we on site have made enough mistakes along the way to help you!!
Humour: As unhumourous as you last few weeks have been, developing humour does help to deal with one's emotions and to cope: For example: I used to refer to my insulin injections as 'javelin practice'; a husband and son of a mother with diabetes would bet on what her before-dinner BSL would be and the loser did the washing up, and I can still recall the funny parts of some 'hypo' experiences from the past: like when only 1 year after diagnosis back before glucose meters and with use of only basic insulins given with glass syringes and reusable needles and I was at a local swimming baths and went hypo. According to the swimming pool attendants I was found trying to put an imaginary token into the turnstile device leading to the ladies change room. Rather embarrassing as an Aussie male!! It is the ability to joke and laugh at one's self that can take the seriousness, guilt and shame out of being diabetic.
Breathe: I found that when stressed and worried I would hold my breath and in that state I was stuck, frozen, unable to think - which only makes the situation worse: When I consciously started to force myself to breathe evenly, not too deeply or fast, my mind clears and I could start to find ways to cope: The truck stuck in the tunnel had to wait for the young boy who was not distressed by the problem, who was breathing evenly, to suggest letting some air out of the truck's tyres.
Support: Congratulations on finding the bestest diabetes site there is: use your family, relatives , friends, health team, this site to help with supporting you (there will be future times when you will do your bit for them so no need to feel guilty at relying on them). And there is no such thing as a simple or obvious or silly question. It is through asking that we learn and we have all at some stage asked a question that we now look back on as obvious. And even after 52 years with insulin as my best friend I still learn things !! I just have to be careful not to assume that I know it all !!
So keep posting, asking questions, dealing with the most important things first such as BSLs, what to eat and avoiding hypos. Of course your own family situation needs some of your attention also. It is the challenge, not matter how underserved or unfair, that makes us stronger and more resilient. Best Wishes, fellow warrior !!
.......................It is all about balance.......Things to do not always go the plan........Things can be daunting at times
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Hi!
I was feeling rubbish with hot and cold sweats and thought I was starting menopause so after a couple of weeks of feeling rubbish, eating chocolate and drinking lucozade to keep my energy levels up I finally booked myself a doctors appointment and was asked to attend hospital for a blood test.
I decided the blood test could wait, there was no rush so I got it done 2 days after being advised. Then everything went crazy!
Monday Doctor appointment
Tuesday slept all day on the sofa, I had no energy aand only went out to fetch my Daughter from college.
Wednesday my eyes were foggy this was a new experience, my Hubby came home from night shift and took me to get my bloods done, I wasn't going to take the chance and drive.
Thursday my vision was ok .... not great but I had to work, I had an event planned which only I could run. The Doctors surgery called me at 10am telling me I must get to the surgery asap. I told them I was working until 4pm, so carried on with my day, after all I had lucozade and chocolate to keep me going.
I then went to the surgery and sat waiting for over an hour, becoming more anxious ..... what was so important? The BANG .... I was told I was dangerously dehydrated, my blood was acidic and I was type 1 diabetic. I was instructed to go straight to hospital.
I drove home in tears, slammed the car door, slammed the house door, threw my phone, keys and bag into the lounge and sobbed my heart out on the stairs (new lounge carpet no shoes allowed).
Then my Hubby drove me to hospital where I sat in majors for 2 hours, once on a bed my blood pressure was low, a saline drip was put in place then I went all weak and woozy to rushed through to resuss. I had a lot of people around me, another canula was put in and a Doctor was squeezing a bag to get it in me quicker. I sent my Hubby home to our children.
By 3am I had 3 bags of saline and insulin was now being pushed in me, I then got moved to a ward with hourly obs done.
Why me? noone in my family had type 1, what did I do to myself? There is no way I had dehydrated myself, I was drinking 12 x 500ml a day! I was fit, active, lost 3 stone to keep myself healthy (still overwieght) was at the gym 3 times a week and swam twice a week as well as an active job!
8 bags of saline and 3 bags of insulin later I was broken hearted, couldn't control my anger, frustration, it felt like I had lost something and I was grieving. my level was 32! no idea what that meant!
Friday evening the drips were removed and injections started. What was I allowed to eat? I had no idea and the menu lady couldn't advise me as she was new. So I had cornflakes, BIG MISTAKE. My level was 14 then after eating it was 22 so no cornflakes for me. I had no idea what they meant by levels but I knew it was bad so again I felt guilty, I had made myself worse by eating!
Saturday - so now I've started to calm down, the ward staff were amazing, had no sleep due to hourly obs. The Diabetic team came to see me, this made my heart brake even more. I was told I'll be insulin dependant for life! She didn't leave me with anything as I was a wreck. I cried myself to sleep that night. The ward staff told me that the mental health team would visit me on monday, they never came.
Sunday - I've been moved to another ward to be with other diabetics. Three ladies were discussing which toes they were having removed, how was this supposed to help me? I sobbed, I'm going to lose my toes too? one lady was having her whole foot off! Will I lose my foot too? My Parents drove 3 hours to visit me, this was the hardest part, I felt that I had let them down, I couldn't be home with my children, my Hubby was running around trying to work, run the house, do the childcare, visit me, he was exhausted and it was all my fault. When my Parents left I cried myself to sleep again.
Monday I was informed I could go home at 10:30am after the diabetic team had been to see me. I had no idea how to look after myself, how was I going to cope? the team came to see me and said I was ready to go. I asked them .... how do I get my insulin? do I need to come back every 4 hours? they were confused as my notes stated that I had been shown how to use my pen. I saw my pen on friday night then it was lost with my folder. Staff were injecting me with syringes I didn't know what to do, how to set it up I just knew that I needed it.
2 hours later I was trained and then could leave but had to wait for the mental health team, the dietitian and 3 canulas to be removed. by 6pm the nurses asked why I hadn't gone home yet!!!!!! So I told them who I was told to wait for, the dietitian had gone home. There was noone available from the metal health team. So canualas were removed and I was discharged.
The drive home was scary, it was like being on a roller coaster, my eyes were blurry, nothing made sense. I got home and hugged my children then fell apart again. Had a nice relaxing bath and sobbed myself to sleep.
Tuesday - day one at home with very poor vision, feeling wobbly, having to sit a lot, still asking myself why me, what did I do wrong to make myself ill? how can I lose weight, get fit and still end up being a diabetic? how was I going to work? I'm self employed, I have to work there is no sick pay. I spent the day in tears, making a cup of tea for myself was hard as I couldn't see the rim of the cup, I had to feel which caused me to pour boiling water on my finger but no burns luckily.
Wednesday - my Hubby had to go to work, this was really scary, a friend came and spent most of the day with me.
Thursday - my first offical day on my own - my vision was still bad but by now my Hubby had bought me some tesco 3.5 reading glasses, I'm wearing these over the top of pound shop 1.5 reading glasses so now I can see, read, use my laptop.
As the week went on I woke every day and felt gutted as I couldn't see the clock, who knew what time it was! Double glasses to read a well lit clock!
Today is day 17 since being diagnosed. I'm no longer tearful. I'm still wearing double glasses though can't walk with them on as I get motion sickness. I've not been out of my home for 6 days as it's scary to step out, I'm safe in my home.
Monday I have a consultant appointment as 12 in one hospital followed by an appointment with my diabetic nurse as 2pm at another hospital.
Tuesday is bag packing day to visit family for Christmas.
Wednesday foot check and flu jab then venture out of the house for a 3 hour journey as a passenger in my Hubby's car which I'm dreading.
To top this all off my Mother in Law was rushed into hospital and she's awaiting an operation today for a ruptured aneurysm. My Hubby has been torn, leave me to go to his Mom or stay and carry on as his sibblings are there. This had made me feel even more guilty and very low in myself BUT I'm not tearful.
I've now learnt how to make a cup of tea and feed myself with blurry vision and have been advised to give my eyes at least another 2 weeks before seeking advice from the opticians.
Prescriptions have cost me a fortune, I've chased up my doctors surgery to find out when my exemption card will come, they haven't processed it yet so will be paying for me next prescription too.
There is an 8 month wait for retinal screening so I might find out how much it will cost if I go private.
Christmas will be strange this year and I know I've refered to my children a lot but they are 17 and 18 now. My Daughter is 100% reliant on me due to her anxiety issues and lack of confidence but she's starting to become independent, she's learning how to get herself too and from college. My Son is amazing, he is dyspraxic and has suddenly grown up, he seeked help from college to change his journey to and from as I was dropping him half way so he only had one bus to deal with. My Hubby has done his best to fully support them both whilst working and visiting me.
I'm very lucky to have an amazing family and I'm no longer angry with my condition. We are learning to deal with is as a family.
This was supposed to be a short post so I totally understand anyone who chooses not to read it. I'm also hoping that it will help anyone else out who have gone through the same process.
Thanks for reading. Onwards and Upwards to 2019!
Hi @MisplacedIdentity, From Australia where everything is upside down!! From my experience as a type 1 diabetic, not as professional advice or opinion:
I have been on insulin for 52 years and still remember my own 'introduction' to diabetes in 1966!!
But.., to let you know that there is life after diagnosis, and happiness, joy and the ability to achieve things.
Your blood sugar levels (BSLs) are now very impressive, but as you say, hypos are more common. There is a very useful section on the Home page of this site, if you use the search box on the right upper section of the screen - and type in 'hypoglycaemia' (hypo = low, -gly = glucose, -aemia = in the blood) or 'hypos' for short. It takes time to 'fine tune' doses of insulin and how much you eat to help prevent hypos but trying to avoid them is best. Your health team is the most important source of help to you.
Our eyes/focus change when blood sugar levels (BSLs) are high. It can take some weeks for this to settle down once BSLs are nearer the normal range. Diabetics are generally advised not to have any measure and maybe change in spectacle prescriptions for at least 5 to 6 weeks after things have settled.
One step at a time: all of us have felt overwhelmed when we were first diagnosed. Trying to deal with all the information, emotion etc at once is impossible. So step by step, building on the experience you gain and information you receive. And we on site have made enough mistakes along the way to help you!!
Humour: As unhumourous as you last few weeks have been, developing humour does help to deal with one's emotions and to cope: For example: I used to refer to my insulin injections as 'javelin practice'; a husband and son of a mother with diabetes would bet on what her before-dinner BSL would be and the loser did the washing up, and I can still recall the funny parts of some 'hypo' experiences from the past: like when only 1 year after diagnosis back before glucose meters and with use of only basic insulins given with glass syringes and reusable needles and I was at a local swimming baths and went hypo. According to the swimming pool attendants I was found trying to put an imaginary token into the turnstile device leading to the ladies change room. Rather embarrassing as an Aussie male!! It is the ability to joke and laugh at one's self that can take the seriousness, guilt and shame out of being diabetic.
Breathe: I found that when stressed and worried I would hold my breath and in that state I was stuck, frozen, unable to think - which only makes the situation worse: When I consciously started to force myself to breathe evenly, not too deeply or fast, my mind clears and I could start to find ways to cope: The truck stuck in the tunnel had to wait for the young boy who was not distressed by the problem, who was breathing evenly, to suggest letting some air out of the truck's tyres.
Support: Congratulations on finding the bestest diabetes site there is: use your family, relatives , friends, health team, this site to help with supporting you (there will be future times when you will do your bit for them so no need to feel guilty at relying on them). And there is no such thing as a simple or obvious or silly question. It is through asking that we learn and we have all at some stage asked a question that we now look back on as obvious. And even after 52 years with insulin as my best friend I still learn things !! I just have to be careful not to assume that I know it all !!
So keep posting, asking questions, dealing with the most important things first such as BSLs, what to eat and avoiding hypos. Of course your own family situation needs some of your attention also. It is the challenge, not matter how underserved or unfair, that makes us stronger and more resilient. Best Wishes, fellow warrior !!
.......................It is all about balance.......Things to do not always go the plan........Things can be daunting at times
View attachment 30255 .... View attachment 30256 ...... ..............................View attachment 30257 .............................. .. View attachment 30258
...................................But most things are possible
.......................................... View attachment 30259
Christmas will be strange this year and I know I've refered to my children a lot but they are 17 and 18 now.
My Daughter is 100% reliant on me due to her anxiety issues and lack of confidence but she's starting to become independent, she's learning how to get herself too and from college.
My Son is amazing, he is dyspraxic and has suddenly grown up, he seeked help from college to change his journey to and from as I was dropping him half way so he only had one bus to deal with. My Hubby has done his best to fully support them both whilst working and visiting me.
I'm very lucky to have an amazing family and I'm no longer angry with my condition. We are learning to deal with is as a family.
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