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Newbie to site! Type 2

confused51

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Hi everyone, my name is Christine (Chris) and although I have been a member for some time, I tried mainly to ignore the fact that I am a T2 diabetic, because I was so frightened of the fact, although I have a regular yearly check up and eye exam yearly.....anyway, I need the answer to some questions, so I am biting the bullitt and making myself a regular visitor even though I'm still scared to death......silly I know, when there are so many people in our 'club'...but unfortunately having severe 'white coat syndrome' isn't helping either....so there you have it....be gentle lol!
 
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Welcome :) and good on you for speaking up. Hopefully you will find answers to your questions.
 
Hello. I see you registered on here nearly 2 years ago. Have you been too worried to join in for all that time? Did you follow your dream and retire to Italy? Please bring us up to date. Help for you is long overdue.
 
Hi DeejR, yes it was 2 long years ago....and yes I am still in 'panic' mode i'm afraid :( we had a wonderful year in Italy and absolutely loved it, but due to a serious illness ( not me) we returned and have just sold our beautiful property. It was heartbreaking but needs and family had to come first. I am still at a loss as to what to eat, after dieting I lost quite a bit of weight and was able to come of one of my medications, but everything food wise I thought I was doing right....seems to be wrong, I have been eating all the wrong things, pasta,rice etc.etc and I thought that fruit in all its entirety was good ( except grapefruit) wrong again!....now after all these years I am back to square one again...I cant get a straight answer on any site of exactly WHAT to eat or what NOT to eat, everything conflicts with each other....I am terrified of anything medical, my doctor, although a lovely bloke, terrifies me and I worry for months before I have to go for my yearly check up with him or the optician ....I KNOW this will make no sense to a lot of people but the stupidly named 'white coat syndrome' is the bind of my life. Even a visit to the pharmacist to pick up my meds sends me into a panic....If anyone has a solution I would be eternally grateful lol
 
Hi Chris,

Welcome here to the forum :)

You are very brave, as you are already facing your fears and show up here!! :cool:

I really don't like going to the GP, especially since the bad news began coming in. Reading a lot about diabetes (just finished my second book :bookworm:) and measuring my blood glucose levels myself gives me a sense of control. I am equipped with a lot of information about my body and my illness and can come to the GP with some confidence, some opinion and many questions ;)

All the best x
 
Hi Chris,

Welcome here to the forum :)

You are very brave, as you are already facing your fears and show up here!! :cool:

I really don't like going to the GP, especially since the bad news began coming in. Reading a lot about diabetes (just finished my second book :bookworm:) and measuring my blood glucose levels myself gives me a sense of control. I am equipped with a lot of information about my body and my illness and can come to the GP with some confidence, some opinion and many questions ;)

All the best x
Thank you x
 
Hi Chris

Its a scary thing thats for sure! I have found that reading articles on here makes things easier to understand which I think makes it a bit less scary. I have also realised that the way to get to grips with this is to educate yourself as much as possible (thats helped by reading things on here). It gives you more of a sense of control. I am still trying to sort the diet side of things so in the meantime I am eating a lot less bread, potatoes, rice and pasta and eating more fresh veg and salads. I have had potatoes twice in three weeks but I would miss bread a lot more lol. I have changed to seeded bread which is actually quite tasty. I have also found that the best fruit is berries, I used to eat a lot of all fruits but by testing my levels, I now know that berries are about the only fruits that dont make my levels spike. Its all a bit trial and error I think and the only way to find out is to keep testing. Hope things start to feel easier for you :)

Deb
 
'white coat syndrome' - many of the chemists round me reorder presription and deliver to door ( think driver looks like delivery man so providing you dont have 'white va man syndrome' as well you would be ok!!!
 
Well you've just made five times as many posts in one day as you made in the previous 18 months (my maths is unreliable but you get the idea) so welcome back and let's make it the first step to better times.
Perhaps if you haven't read it already you'd take a look at @daisy1 's great guide to managing your diabetes. I think the more knowledge you gain the less scary it all becomes.
 
@confused51

Hello Chris and welcome back. Here, if you have not seen it already, is the information we give to new members and this should help you, in addition to the posts above. Ask as many questions as you like and someone will help.


BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEW MEMBERS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find over 150,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes-and-whole-grains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to bloodglucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
 
You've made a positive step in the right direction by starting to post. I know how confusing everything can seem and just when you think you have it sussed something else pops up and its back into the land of confusion. I found it useful to sit down and write out a plan for myself and then I broke it down into small steps so I wouldnt get overwhelmed.
 
Hi DeejR, yes it was 2 long years ago....and yes I am still in 'panic' mode i'm afraid :( we had a wonderful year in Italy and absolutely loved it, but due to a serious illness ( not me) we returned and have just sold our beautiful property. It was heartbreaking but needs and family had to come first. I am still at a loss as to what to eat, after dieting I lost quite a bit of weight and was able to come of one of my medications, but everything food wise I thought I was doing right....seems to be wrong, I have been eating all the wrong things, pasta,rice etc.etc and I thought that fruit in all its entirety was good ( except grapefruit) wrong again!....now after all these years I am back to square one again...I cant get a straight answer on any site of exactly WHAT to eat or what NOT to eat, everything conflicts with each other....I am terrified of anything medical, my doctor, although a lovely bloke, terrifies me and I worry for months before I have to go for my yearly check up with him or the optician ....I KNOW this will make no sense to a lot of people but the stupidly named 'white coat syndrome' is the bind of my life. Even a visit to the pharmacist to pick up my meds sends me into a panic....If anyone has a solution I would be eternally grateful lol
It makes perfect sense to me. It sounds to me like an anxiety disorder/phobia, and there is a specific kind of cognitive behavioural therapy that clinical psychologists are trained in, that can often help. Ask your GP to refer you for this kind of therapy. Certain kinds of antidepressant meds can also help with anxiety disorders. There are other meds that can help with anxiety too, but they can have negative side effects in some people. It's a trade off though - if the meds help you cope better they may be worth it. Good luck.
 
Hi Chris

Its a scary thing thats for sure! I have found that reading articles on here makes things easier to understand which I think makes it a bit less scary. I have also realised that the way to get to grips with this is to educate yourself as much as possible (thats helped by reading things on here). It gives you more of a sense of control. I am still trying to sort the diet side of things so in the meantime I am eating a lot less bread, potatoes, rice and pasta and eating more fresh veg and salads. I have had potatoes twice in three weeks but I would miss bread a lot more lol. I have changed to seeded bread which is actually quite tasty. I have also found that the best fruit is berries, I used to eat a lot of all fruits but by testing my levels, I now know that berries are about the only fruits that dont make my levels spike. Its all a bit trial and error I think and the only way to find out is to keep testing. Hope things start to feel easier for you :)

Deb
thank you Deb x
 
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