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Partner recently diagnosed

nonfatcaramel

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Hi all,

My partner was diagnosed on Sunday in A & E. Her level was extremely high - 18! This really didn't mean much to us at the time as we know so little about type 2 diabetes. She has been prescribed metformin and so far the only side effect appears to be bad migraines.

Just looking for some advice on how to support her...food wise - our diet has been in the past rich in carbs...and wine! Just want to ensure I am supporting her in making better choices as I feel this new lifestyle will initially be hard on her...

 
It's all very scary isn't it There's lots of really good advice pinned to the top of this section that is well worth a read. Have you got your own meter yet? I can't really help much with suggesting diets as BG seems to defy everything! I think everyone is just different. I've been keeping a precise food diary and recording my glucose levels religiously (almost fanatical in fact!) while I work out what works for me. I'm just a couple weeks ahead of your partner!
 
Hi nonfatcaramel and welcome to the forum Here is some general advice which we give to new members which should help you to help your partner. Ask as many questions as you like as there is always someone here to help.

 
Incidentally, I've found that exercise really helps me mentally (and I never thought I would say that!!) I started actually using that rebounder that was sat in the garage to vent some spleen, and after a few days discovered I was actually enjoying it! I've now got a cross trainer as well and do an hour a day on it
 
Welcome nonfatcaramel! Daisy's post contains loads of good advice so do read that. It takes a while to learn and adapt, but you get used to it, and it's not as bad as you think right now. Meantime, any questions just ask, and someone will reply.
 
Hi. The good news is alcohol isn't a problem unless you go mad with it. Just read the medication labels but you will find in general that a sensible amount is fine and doesn't affect blood sugar
 

Hi and welcome,
With regards the migraines, I didn't get them when I first started with the Metformin but I did get headaches if I didn't drink quite a bit (water that is not wine!) as they tend to dehydrate somewhat.
Best wishes
Angie
 
Hi nonfatcaramel, firstly i'd like to say well done you in supporting your partner. Its not an easy thing for a partner to do as there will be diet changes. Unfortuntaley my partner has not grasped the consept of diabetes (nothing wrong with that as i'm struggling too!) but when she goes shopping and buys chocolate, apple pies, biscuits, the temptation is always there! I've has type 2 for just over 3 months now, diet has played a big help in loseing weight, but need to up the exercise level to help abit further! I only take 1 metformin tablet with my main meal at the moment, the only side effect i've had is excess gas. It is a struggle trying to deal with it by diet alone, and everyone is different. I must say i have had excellent help from my local nurse at the surgery (some people have had a mare of a time!) Eye Test, Foot examination, advise, free testing monitor, referral to local hospital for Diabetes Group Meetings, so the help is out there, just make sure you ask for it! I am new to this and am struggling to lower my levels, but the help on this forum is invaulable, it just takes time to sift through and find the answer that works for you guys. Once again Well Done to you x :clap:
 


Hi Glen

Sorry to hear you're not getting the support at home...it is very much a minefield! We keep walking around Tesco holding up food and reading the info on the back but in all honesty still feel a bit lost as to what is safe and what is not. I haven't been hugely impressed with the support from the NHS so far but will start asking more questions and seeking more support for my partner. Thanks for your reply, it was much appreciated!
 

Hahah re the wine point! Thanks Angie!
 
I just wanted to say hi, and try not to worry. You and your partner well soon get to grips with everything.
 
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