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Partner recently diagnosed

nonfatcaramel

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Hi all,

My partner was diagnosed on Sunday in A & E. Her level was extremely high - 18! This really didn't mean much to us at the time as we know so little about type 2 diabetes. She has been prescribed metformin and so far the only side effect appears to be bad migraines.

Just looking for some advice on how to support her...food wise - our diet has been in the past rich in carbs...and wine! Just want to ensure I am supporting her in making better choices as I feel this new lifestyle will initially be hard on her...

:)
 
It's all very scary isn't it :( There's lots of really good advice pinned to the top of this section that is well worth a read. Have you got your own meter yet? I can't really help much with suggesting diets as BG seems to defy everything! I think everyone is just different. I've been keeping a precise food diary and recording my glucose levels religiously (almost fanatical in fact!) while I work out what works for me. I'm just a couple weeks ahead of your partner!
 
Hi nonfatcaramel and welcome to the forum :) Here is some general advice which we give to new members which should help you to help your partner. Ask as many questions as you like as there is always someone here to help.

BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEWLY DIAGNOSED DIABETICS


Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find well over 30,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes ... rains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips
The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to blood glucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
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Please sign our e-petition for free testing for all type 2's; here's the link:
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/petition/

Do get your friends and colleagues to sign as well.
 
Incidentally, I've found that exercise really helps me mentally (and I never thought I would say that!!) I started actually using that rebounder that was sat in the garage to vent some spleen, and after a few days discovered I was actually enjoying it! I've now got a cross trainer as well and do an hour a day on it :D
 
Welcome nonfatcaramel! Daisy's post contains loads of good advice so do read that. It takes a while to learn and adapt, but you get used to it, and it's not as bad as you think right now. Meantime, any questions just ask, and someone will reply.
 
Hi. The good news is alcohol isn't a problem unless you go mad with it. Just read the medication labels but you will find in general that a sensible amount is fine and doesn't affect blood sugar
 
nonfatcaramel said:
Hi all,

My partner was diagnosed on Sunday in A & E. Her level was extremely high - 18! This really didn't mean much to us at the time as we know so little about type 2 diabetes. She has been prescribed metformin and so far the only side effect appears to be bad migraines.

Just looking for some advice on how to support her...food wise - our diet has been in the past rich in carbs...and wine! Just want to ensure I am supporting her in making better choices as I feel this new lifestyle will initially be hard on her...

:)

Hi and welcome,
With regards the migraines, I didn't get them when I first started with the Metformin but I did get headaches if I didn't drink quite a bit (water that is not wine!) as they tend to dehydrate somewhat.
Best wishes
Angie
 
Hi nonfatcaramel, firstly i'd like to say well done you in supporting your partner. Its not an easy thing for a partner to do as there will be diet changes. Unfortuntaley my partner has not grasped the consept of diabetes (nothing wrong with that as i'm struggling too!) but when she goes shopping and buys chocolate, apple pies, biscuits, the temptation is always there! I've has type 2 for just over 3 months now, diet has played a big help in loseing weight, but need to up the exercise level to help abit further! I only take 1 metformin tablet with my main meal at the moment, the only side effect i've had is excess gas. It is a struggle trying to deal with it by diet alone, and everyone is different. I must say i have had excellent help from my local nurse at the surgery (some people have had a mare of a time!) Eye Test, Foot examination, advise, free testing monitor, referral to local hospital for Diabetes Group Meetings, so the help is out there, just make sure you ask for it! I am new to this and am struggling to lower my levels, but the help on this forum is invaulable, it just takes time to sift through and find the answer that works for you guys. Once again Well Done to you x :clap:
 
glenmurray said:
Hi nonfatcaramel, firstly i'd like to say well done you in supporting your partner. Its not an easy thing for a partner to do as there will be diet changes. Unfortuntaley my partner has not grasped the consept of diabetes (nothing wrong with that as i'm struggling too!) but when she goes shopping and buys chocolate, apple pies, biscuits, the temptation is always there! I've has type 2 for just over 3 months now, diet has played a big help in loseing weight, but need to up the exercise level to help abit further! I only take 1 metformin tablet with my main meal at the moment, the only side effect i've had is excess gas. It is a struggle trying to deal with it by diet alone, and everyone is different. I must say i have had excellent help from my local nurse at the surgery (some people have had a mare of a time!) Eye Test, Foot examination, advise, free testing monitor, referral to local hospital for Diabetes Group Meetings, so the help is out there, just make sure you ask for it! I am new to this and am struggling to lower my levels, but the help on this forum is invaulable, it just takes time to sift through and find the answer that works for you guys. Once again Well Done to you x :clap:


Hi Glen

Sorry to hear you're not getting the support at home...it is very much a minefield! We keep walking around Tesco holding up food and reading the info on the back but in all honesty still feel a bit lost as to what is safe and what is not. I haven't been hugely impressed with the support from the NHS so far but will start asking more questions and seeking more support for my partner. Thanks for your reply, it was much appreciated! :D
 
angieG said:
nonfatcaramel said:
Hi all,

My partner was diagnosed on Sunday in A & E. Her level was extremely high - 18! This really didn't mean much to us at the time as we know so little about type 2 diabetes. She has been prescribed metformin and so far the only side effect appears to be bad migraines.

Just looking for some advice on how to support her...food wise - our diet has been in the past rich in carbs...and wine! Just want to ensure I am supporting her in making better choices as I feel this new lifestyle will initially be hard on her...

:)

Hi and welcome,
With regards the migraines, I didn't get them when I first started with the Metformin but I did get headaches if I didn't drink quite a bit (water that is not wine!) as they tend to dehydrate somewhat.
Best wishes
Angie

Hahah re the wine point! Thanks Angie!
 
I just wanted to say hi, and try not to worry. You and your partner well soon get to grips with everything.
 
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