Yes - in your position,
@tiredgirl91, I would see the prediabetes as a reason to cut down on carbs - not an all-out very low-carb radical move. And eat and meter to keep an eye on it - especially that revealing fasting blood glucose. That would indeed, give you room for social carby food eating as you say, on occasion.
It should not take enormous effort to get you into the healthy blood glucose (and insulin) range? If you haven't already? Cutting down on the obvious excess carbs. And yes - get those tests to make sure you are dealing with (vulnerability to) common garden variety type two, and not those auto-immune kinds - very different treatment for, for sure.
And I agree on the dry wine! The alcohol issue is one shared by all human beings - how to imbibe and enjoy, and keep it at a level that doesn't hurt or hinder health. If I had a bottle of wine for every time I have patiently explained to folks that it is not alcohol itself that type twos have to cut down or out for blood glucose health - but the carbs in any alcoholic beverage. And that non-sugared alcohol does not raise our blood glucose, but in fact, can lower it (as the liver is dealing with the alcohol, and not putting out extra glucose into our systems). As you know already - well done you! If meds taken have a bad reaction to/with alcohol - that is another thing.
As someone who had lots of body fat on me when I was diagnosed, and the usual problem area of belly fat - I am not offended by anyone referring to that fat stored on my body as a sign of being vulnerable to type two.
Tiregirl - what actually is your HBA1c, and your BMI? If you don't mind me asking. Also, your height waist ratio - which is more interesting for you re your vulnerability to type two. I have found here in the forum, that what mahy be thought of as thin/underweight nowadays, was just slender in times past, and clinincally speaking. Anyone being clinically underweight is vulnerable to ill-health (but yes - not usually blood glucose regulation problems!). Health problems for the clinically underweight (BMIs 18 and under i believe) can be very vulnerable to.... death from malnourishment! And heart issues, due to being under-fueled, basically. Obviously very serious.