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Please help! I'm scared!

tara1979

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Type of diabetes
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Diet only
Hi, I don't really know where to start. I got diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes yesterday. Had to go and see the nurse this morning to get a finger prick kit. Been told to take my own blood every morning and sometimes at night. But not been told how I should change my lifestyle or anything else.

So, this evening I took my reading after taking 2 hours to pluck up enough courage to do it (I'm petrified of needles) and it came back with 8.4. Is this good or bad?


Please help! I'm scared and I don't know where to start.

Tara
 
Hi Tara! It is absolutely brilliant you were given a meter and strips, very few of us are but testing is vital. This shows that your DSN is clued up and that is a great help.

I suggest you start to try out what food you tolerate by testing.

LCHF is a great way of controlling BG https://www.dietdoctor.com/lchf

8,4 isn that bad at all but you might be able to improve things.

Do you have relatives with diabetes?
 
No relatives at all with the condition.

I'm feeling really down and depressed by all this at the moment.

Will I always have to test my blood?
 
Hi Tara
Don't be scared we all feel the same way on diagnosis. 8.4 is not massively high but it needs to be taken in context with regards to what you have eaten and when.
There are some great people on the forum who will give you good advice when and how to test.
And remember you are not alone.
 
Will I always have to test my blood and watch what I eat or will I get better?
 
@tara1979 Don't be scared. 8.4 is actually not that bad. How long since you ate something?

When I was told I had type 2 I was too ignorant to be scared, so you're already 1 up on me. It took me a long time to figure out what I needed to do and what worked for me. Eventually I went to a low carb high fat diet. I figured out that my blood sugar level peaked about an hour after I ate carbs. I decided based on some research on the interwebs that I wanted to keep that peak below 7 mmol/L. Then I tested myself after meals and figured out that I had to cut way down on carbs to keep the peak below my target (I used to ate lots of carbs even when I was dieting and losing weight). This took quite a few weeks to refine. Now, a few months later my blood sugar is under control and the low carb high fat diet has actually improved my cholesterol numbers. I'm also on metformin, but I'm not sure it's doing much for my blood sugar levels. I've also started exercising regularly, but again I'm not sure it's doing much for my blood sugar levels. The low carb seems to really work for me, but you'll have to experiment yourself. Some people find that low carb does not work well and their blood glucose levels go crazy without carbs. Keep calm and test on.
 
Will I always have to test my blood and watch what I eat or will I get better?

You'll probably always have to test, but if you figure out what keeps your blood sugar levels in check you won't have to check very often. I went crazy at first and tested 10 times a day sometimes as I was experimenting, but now sometimes I just do 1 in the morning before breakfast, since I know the what I eat won't spike my blood sugar.
 
Will it always hurt?

The best way to avoid the pain is to use the lancet on the side of your finger (pinky or ring finger), never the tip or the pad. Also, set the lancet on the lowest number as that is the shallowest. If that doesn't get any blood, keep increasing until it does.
 
Thanks hunny, will try that in the morning when next testing. The nurse set it on 6 and it really hurts my finger, even got a slight bruise from where she did it this afternoon.

Will let you know how I get on. X
 
Some lancets have a thicker gauge needle than others so you might want to experiment with different lancing devices and lancets if you find that the shallowest setting on your lancing device still hurts. You will get used to it with time. It's just frightening to start with. Also, ask your diabetes nurse to refer you to a dietitian if you feel you may need help with diet but not all are helpful when it comes to LCHF even though this does seem to work for so many diabetics.
 
Hi Tara. Sorry about your diagnosis. If you wash your hands in warm, soapy water before you test, it will plump up your fingertips and make it easier to take a spot of blood. It will become less painful as your fear subsides.
 
Hi Tara

Welcome, don't panic, this is all manageable but it will involve a change of lifestyle in terms of what you eat if you want to keep your blood sugars under control and avoid/minimise drugs. First of all, well done for getting here! Secondly, the key is to reduce your intake of carbohydrates significantly - bread, potatoes, pasta, rice - as well as cutting out the obvious sugars. Many fruits are also very high in sugar, bananas and most tropical fruits for instance, berries are best. This may be different from what the NHS tell you.

Whether you test for ever depends on how you control your blood sugars and how confident you become on what different foods do to you - it's all a learning process. You are lucky in having a test kit prescribed and a DN who wants you to test, most T2s don't and we have to buy them. But it is essential to understand what we can and can't eat. Initially you should test when you get up (before even showering), immediately before eating - not necessarily all meals, but usually dinner anyway - and 2 hours after starting to eat. You can test at bedtime as well if you want. The crucial measure is the rise 2 hours after eating, that should be as low as you can manage. Less than 8 is OK, less than 7 is better.

But it's all a bit bewildering at first, take your time and read around the forum and website, and ask any questions. On the website there's a video about testing somewhere. Set the needle to the lowest setting that you need to produce a drop of blood, use the sides of your fingers below the nail, and use different fingers to spread the usage. Soon you'll be doing it without a second thought. Make sure your hands are clean when testing, the slightest bit of dirt, grease or food can knock the result right up.
 
Thanks hunny, will try that in the morning when next testing. The nurse set it on 6 and it really hurts my finger, even got a slight bruise from where she did it this afternoon.

Will let you know how I get on. X
take a breath, everyone goes nuts the first month, it's a hell of a shock. but in a month it won't be too bad.
dial it back to 1 and go from there, 1 is enough on my accuchek pen, I milk my finger to get a small drop, I don't stab deep enough that it just bleeds

these sites helped me
http://lowcarbdiets.about.com/od/lowcarbliving/a/Food-Cravings.htm
http://www.phlaunt.com/diabetes/14045524.php
http://www.dietdoctor.com/lchf
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/
 
Hi You'll be fine, i find that if i feel ok in myself i don't test myself !, my doctor wont prescribe the strips or lancets so i buy my own from the diabetes.co.uk shop .

My 1st fasted blood test when diagnosed was 18.2 and hba1c of 118 !!

As said before wind the pen back to 1 or 2 and try, and always replace the lancet every time as blunt ones hurt much more !!
 
Hi, I don't really know where to start. I got diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes yesterday. Had to go and see the nurse this morning to get a finger prick kit. Been told to take my own blood every morning and sometimes at night. But not been told how I should change my lifestyle or anything else.

So, this evening I took my reading after taking 2 hours to pluck up enough courage to do it (I'm petrified of needles) and it came back with 8.4. Is this good or bad?


Please help! I'm scared and I don't know where to start.

Tara
Hi Tara, now that you've had a bit of time to get to grips with things, how are you getting on?
 
Hi Tara it's normal to be scared at first. We've all been there. It does get better. Diabetes is in my family with so many members having type 2, so even though I was half expecting it, it didn't make it any less scary. I was diagnosed in September. I'm on the lchf diet too, although not too low, and it's working brilliant for me. Once you get used to your meter, and you will, you will be able to test regularly and think nothing of it. Mines like playing a game to me now. My readings were in the 8's too and even as high as 11 after some meals. I soon learnt what I can and can't eat through testing and now I'm very rarely past 7. What's more I'm enjoying the meals I'm actually eating. I Found some brilliant recipes on here. Have a read through the forums and ask lots of questions if you need to, people will be here to help you. Once you've got your head round it, you will be fine. You've come to the best place.
 
Hello Tara and welcome to the forum :)

Here is the information we give to new members and I hope you will find it useful. Ask all the questions you like and someone will be able to help, as you have already seen.

BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEWLY DIAGNOSED DIABETICS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find over 100,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes-and-whole-grains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to bloodglucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
 
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