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<blockquote data-quote="Gravity-Carb" data-source="post: 921020" data-attributes="member: 194006"><p>Oh my days that is a heart wrenching surrender to this situation, but unfortunately one that has to take place. OP, you only have so much energy emotional and physical and yes your in a high maintenance caring postion for the long-haul. I wish you all the luck, support and strength.</p><p>Just loving your husband as is without the desperate plee for him to take charge of his health will be hard, you might need some help with that, ask your gp for a councillor referral as cognitive behaviour therapy will help with YOUR self beliefs and behaviour changes. You can't own his choices, you haven't failed anything or anyone, you'll just be accepting the situation. I am not that religious, but that Serenity Prayer comes to mind, I don't know it properly but it's all about strength courage, wisdom and acceptance. Kinda your bag right now.</p><p>You know if your able to really get to that place of acceptance and loving as is without, your husband will feel the shift in your relationship. That it isn't threats of leaving him or nagging his choices or taking him to doctor's. He just won't have that to focus on, and you will be in the process of accepting his choice of not caring if he lives or dies. So hard hun.</p><p>Please please take the time.</p><p>Yoga in the am before anyone is up, when I remember, helps me centre myself for the day. 10mins with You-Tube a few breathing excerises and bring it on. </p><p>I really hope you can vain strength from the empathy, support and advice on this forum. PM me if you want. </p><p>Take care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Gravity-Carb, post: 921020, member: 194006"] Oh my days that is a heart wrenching surrender to this situation, but unfortunately one that has to take place. OP, you only have so much energy emotional and physical and yes your in a high maintenance caring postion for the long-haul. I wish you all the luck, support and strength. Just loving your husband as is without the desperate plee for him to take charge of his health will be hard, you might need some help with that, ask your gp for a councillor referral as cognitive behaviour therapy will help with YOUR self beliefs and behaviour changes. You can't own his choices, you haven't failed anything or anyone, you'll just be accepting the situation. I am not that religious, but that Serenity Prayer comes to mind, I don't know it properly but it's all about strength courage, wisdom and acceptance. Kinda your bag right now. You know if your able to really get to that place of acceptance and loving as is without, your husband will feel the shift in your relationship. That it isn't threats of leaving him or nagging his choices or taking him to doctor's. He just won't have that to focus on, and you will be in the process of accepting his choice of not caring if he lives or dies. So hard hun. Please please take the time. Yoga in the am before anyone is up, when I remember, helps me centre myself for the day. 10mins with You-Tube a few breathing excerises and bring it on. I really hope you can vain strength from the empathy, support and advice on this forum. PM me if you want. Take care. [/QUOTE]
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