Hey Bethsmum, I don't fully understand how diabetes is diagnosed in the UK, but I think you'll receive a diagnosis in the next few days (and be feeling a lot better soon).
I crossed over from pre-diabetes to diabetes ten years ago, but still had no symptoms when my A1C was 8.3% four years ago. It was only in the last 6 months that I began having symptoms, but I was also under a lot of stress due to my work during those years too, so perhaps I didn't realize I was having symptoms. In mid-February of this year, I was seen for what I thought was a bladder infection, it wasn't, and the doctor ordered an A1C. It was 9.9%, which is what brought me here.
I think once you have a meter and begin testing throughout the day you'll see that your blood glucose levels are up and down quite a bit, which will validate how awful you've been feeling. Diet, exercise, and frequent testing will make a huge difference in your ability to get your blood glucose levels down with time and perseverance.
As I recall, it took me a full month to get my blood glucose levels down and stable with diet and exercise. For others, it often only takes a week or two.
Though my blood glucose levels are now well managed, they are still not within the normal range so still working on it. My fasting glucose upon awakening is now 95 to 110 mg/dL (5.3 - 6.1 mmol/L). My last A1C was 5.5%. I've been on the diet 5 months now, and walking daily. It's all helped greatly.
I initially got a high quality meter, lance device, and test strips. What works best for me is to test 4 to 7-9 times a day, which quickly became a financial hardship because the strips were costing me 88 cents each locally, 68 cents online. When I had my diabetic eye exam, it was suggested to me to find the cheapest strips I could find and the meter to go along with it. I went to Walmart and found that I could buy 100 strips for $18 which would be 18 cents a strip, so bought that meter and began using those strips.
This journey was difficult and angst provoking for me initially. As I began testing, and learning what to eat and not eat, my confidence grew that I was going to be okay.
I think the worst part of being ill and the often drawn out diagnostic process is...all the unknowns. You're almost there. You'll soon be "in the know". Diet, exercise, and testing will restore your health and you'll soon be doing what you enjoy again.
