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What the very old need is for their remaining life to be as pleasant as possible. Restricting what they can eat because it will affect them in the long term, when they don't have a long term, seems unfair.I know that diabetic patients in their very old age are 'neglected with their diabetes needs' I hear it first hand from carers in care homes. 'They are fed, whatever they like'. I asked one recently "do they get tested before eating?" The answer was "no". I was scoffed for asking.
Obviously I'm the silly one, for asking if residents were looked after properly.
That's what she said.What the very old need is for their remaining life to be as pleasant as possible. Restricting what they can eat because it will affect them in the long term, when they don't have a long term, seems unfair.
My dads place has a proper big menu, we can eat there with him for a small donation and I have to say the food and choices are pretty good. They even do a full English if you fancy one. I do know what you mean though, he was in a couple of places before this one on a temporary basis until a place became available at his current one, the food was dire in one and average in the other, both places all round were very institutional whereas the place he is now is like a little hotel - staff are great tooI visit an assisted living block and see the menu written up from the previous day. There are no dishes I would wish to eat. Life there would be dismal in the extreme. How it could be considered an enjoyable existence to eat such foods I really don't know. Pastry, mashed potato, rice all cheap stodge and no quality meat or fish to be had.
My dads place has a proper big menu, we can eat there with him for a small donation and I have to say the food and choices are pretty good. They even do a full English if you fancy one. I do know what you mean though, he was in a couple of places before this one on a temporary basis until a place became available at his current one, the food was dire in one and average in the other, both places all round were very institutional whereas the place he is now is like a little hotel - staff are great too
My dads nursing home is great - we picked a nursing home rather than a care home as they have to have district nurses come in to administer insulin where as the nursing home had its own nurses on duty all the time
It's part of the Barchester group so there may be one in your area! We have just come back from their Easter lunch, all family and friends invited for a donation- lovely 3 course Easter lunch, egg hunt, Easter bonnet comp and a Michael Buble tribute act (much to my son's disgust lol) - it's lovely to be able to do this as dad can't come to us anymore -Where is this? I would like to get my name down for when the time comes.
This includes insulin dependent diabetes as it has to be done by a nurse - and dad is yes they are far more expensive- dad is over the threshold so pays for it all himself, he is by no means rich basically just money from the sale of his house - I don't want to give exact amounts but if I say there's not much change from £4,500 a month then you'll get the idea!Unless the rules have changed in recent times, nursing homes are far more expensive, and Social Services will only contribute if the person is deemed to require NHS style nursing care for medical reasons as opposed to the type of care given in care homes (such as dressing, washing, feeding, medication, mobility needs etc.). The criteria for nursing home admission is quite stringent if Social Service contributions are required.
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