my way or the highway? wouldnt i need to be in charge to be saying that? it is a friendly forum, if a friend of mine says something i disagree with i tell them and visa versa, they are still my friend, this forum is for help, advice, support and debate as far as im concerned anyway but im not in charge, you can disagree with anything i say at anytime just like you just have, my comments arent meant to make you leave i was just expressing an opinion and did not intend to belittle you if thats how you took it, there is a huge amount of imformation on here that could help you so leaving over something i have said is ridiculous, i agree people have their own minds and are perfectly entitled to ignore every word of what i said, you were judged by my comments, do we not judge people by what we say? i am not here to gain popularity im here to help and be helped, if we do something "good" we are rightly praised, if we do something "bad" would you like praise for that too? or should unhealthy behaviour be ignored? if thats how you want me to act you will have to contact an admin and have me banned because thats not how im made, this post could have quickly turned into the likes of previous posts ive seen where folks all compare how badly theyve cheated and i believe its negative encouragement which is why i said what i said right or wrong i stand by it, although i am sorry it upset you, i will have to live with being taken off your christmas card list