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Saw Diabetes Nurse, feeling very distressed

Thank you for these encouraging words. You're right, it is my body. I have the right to make my own decisions
 
Oh wow, I love this analogy! So helpful. Thank you for taking the time to write this.
 
Years ago I reluctantly had the flu jab and was very late on the uptake. I was ridiculed by the practice nurse on why I had left it so late (due to mental health issues), she proceeded to just throw the needle in like a dart which absolutely killed my arm. My husband was with me and is usually very mild in manner, but when I saw the look on his face I just knew he was about to explode. I got us out of there as soon as possible and my arm swelled and took 24 hrs to go down. The said practice nurse also deals with my type 2, say no more.....
 
mariavontrapp said:
Oh wow, I love this analogy! So helpful. Thank you for taking the time to write this.
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What a lovely response
Thank you .

And so pleased you found it helpful.

We never know when we post how much our words of encouragement can help others.

I know the kindness of members when I arrived was what calmed me & kept me going in those dark early days.

Very happy to know I passed that forward for someone else.

You keep on doing You.
I think you'll do just fine.

Best wishes @mariavontrapp .
 
When I was diagnosed, I asked the nurse what I should do. Her response was “Nothing, we’ll manage it for you.”

The response in my head is not for writing down, but I did explain that MY life was for ME to manage. ok, from time to time, I might need some help with that, but decisions would be my own.

I’m now nearing 10 years in remission, but still use that response as motivation to keep moving forward.

Bravo to you @mariavontrapp . Your condition, you manage it as you see fit.
 
Hi there - diagnosed type 2 just into Lockdown 2020 and decided (after much research) to use low carbs plus intermittent fasting AND self funding test meter! I lost over 7 stone and am still maintaining reasonable weight (size 16/18 at 5’10”) AND still choose to test each morning (as still need to know readings!) Occasionally eat “naughty” food and lately morning readings slightly higher, but seeing our local diabetic nurse is difficult, so l just do what l feel is correct? But this nurse does NOT agree self testing each day and wasn’t really supportive my chosen life style! However my GP was very pleased that diabetes now into remission (as was my Consultant before a major op!) so do what YOU think works best for your body! Now into my 4th year and (so far) my chosen life style works fine! A shame NHS seems be unaware about low carbs tho - eating in hospital extremely difficult! So well done you!
 
Cracking post .

Fully agree


Especially on hospital food

Why not at least one diabetic choice each meal ..
 
 
jjraak said:
Cracking post .

Fully agree


Especially on hospital food

Why not at least one diabetic choice each meal ..
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Yes, but what is a diabetic choice? Everyone eats differently. Even we low carvers all eat differently.

I agree hospital menus are not the most nutritionally dense, but “diabetic”, or even “healthy” foods are a bit like the unicorn. As ever, one size doesn’t fit all.
 
Agree.
But it wouldn't be that difficult to offer a larger portion of proteins and veggies, would it? Or a larger portion of potatoes for who likes that.
 
Antje77 said:
Agree.
But it wouldn't be that difficult to offer a larger portion of proteins and veggies, would it? Or a larger portion of potatoes for who likes that.
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I think it is assumed in hospital that if you're not too well, your appetite could be less, and furthermore your calorific requirements lower. Of course nutritional content could be a different thing.

I think all I'm saying is labeling anything "diabetic" is really unhelpful, knowing how differently we all approach our individual conditions.

MrB has his orders, should I ever be incarcerated, and of course, I'd take him food parcels too.
 
So NO option for food a diabetic MIGHT find more suitable ..mmmhh.

Splitting hairs slightly.

If we can have vegan options or vegetarian options, not too sure at least one option of higher protein, lower carbs, etc might not be such a bad idea.

Veteran of the hospital wars,
Dec 2021-jan 2022..

Hoo Rah.
 
When my daughter-in-law was in hospital after the birth of our granddaughter there wasn't even a gluten free option. I had to go to a garage nearby and buy a couple of packs of gluten free sandwiches and snacks for her.
 
I’m sure if all hospitals are like my local bunch, there is an option to select food for those living with diabetes. Of course, that food will be based on the Eat Well Plate.

Given this fits with NICE and other guidelines, I can understand, if not support why they do as they do.

The prospect of hospitalisation for more than a day or two horrifies me, but I’d just have to get on with it, and hope MrB would bring in food parcels to me.

Sometimes picking the best of a bad bunch is all we could do.
 
My experience in November was unusually good. There were lots of meals that my family provided and there really wasn't a breakfast option but the nurses did try their very best to accommodate me.
They would phone down to the kitchen and arrange plates with just whatever protein and veg/salad that was on offer. They also kept my sugar free almond milk in the ward fridge and brought it with the tea trolley every time.
 
Mine was NOT a suitable experience for diabetics. Breakfast consisted of a choice of cereals or toast, which I never normally ate even in my pre-diabetic days. And I had to eat because I had to take a pile of pills, and also because I was being injected with insulin without being told (though I could work it out). Lunch and dinner did offer the option of salads, though I could have cried when one was peas, carrots and sweetcorn. One of us here on the Board sneaked off to the hospital cafe and had a fry-up, and I might well do that myself if I ever have to stay in again (I do hope not).
 
My only experience of NHS hospital food was about 10 years ago. I had been admitted for severe DKA the day before, BG stabilised fairly quickly but was kept overnight as my ketones were still elevated - breakfast options were cereal or toast...but a kind nurse indicated that if I was gluten intolerant scrambled eggs could be provided - so took this option. Thankfully discharged before lunch.
 
@mariavontrapp oh dear, she is totally 'old school' as are a lot of gp's and nurses, but ... try googling Dr David Unwin who is a practicing gp in Southport England. He also uses a Libre by the way and he has put the majority of his diabetic patients into remission! He is such an inspiration. When you've time to relax just sit down and listen to one of his videos on youtube. x
 
That sounds really frustrating. You're not alone in feeling like this after an appointment. Many of us have had similar experiences. Trust yourself, and take things one step at a time.
 
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