Hi @BinaB
Let me tag @daisy1 for you as she has some basic information.
Some Type 2s will be along soon (maybe more of them in the morning) and they can give their advice. I have Type 1 but I wouldn't eat sweets if my blood sugar was high. I'm wondering if your man's doctor has set higher acceptable blood sugar levels for her because of her age?
Hello thank you for your reply. I think I need to make an appointment with another doctor and see if I can get some answers regarding her age. Thank youHi @BinaB
Let me tag @daisy1 for you as she has some basic information.
Some Type 2s will be along soon (maybe more of them in the morning) and they can give their advice. I have Type 1 but I wouldn't eat sweets if my blood sugar was high. I'm wondering if your man's doctor has set higher acceptable blood sugar levels for her because of her age?
Hello thank you for your reply. I think I tend to agree with you regarding her age.I once had a doctor tell me well shes had good inners. I wonder if they would feel the same if it was there mam. when my mam eventually has to meet her maker . I would prefer it to be a peaceful passing and not the possibility of a stoke etc because of high sugar levels.I dont feel its the end of the world if she cant have sweets theres plenty of nice foods she can have instead. My mam is lovely shes so young at heart, very independant ( lives alone) but the family ( me and siblings ) make the decisions even though she does have faculties. im kinda being out voted in wanting a good healthy diet for my mam. I stick to the diet. they give her chocolate and treats and they even got this doctor to write me a note which he even signed sayin level 15 is ok :/ I think I will see another doctor and see what they have to say . Thank you for your time .Hi there
It sounds to me like what this doctor is not saying out loud is that at her age he is not worried about the long term and that she should enjoy the time she has left. I guess the question is do you agree with that attitude or not. If not you should see another doctor. Does your mother understand her diabetes well enough to make the decision on her own? It is really a trade off between short term pleasures and long term complications. Tough call, I wish you well.
Hello thank you for your reply. I think I tend to agree with you regarding her age.I once had a doctor tell me well shes had good inners. I wonder if they would feel the same if it was there mam. when my mam eventually has to meet her maker . I would prefer it to be a peaceful passing and not the possibility of a stoke etc because of high sugar levels.I dont feel its the end of the world if she cant have sweets theres plenty of nice foods she can have instead. My mam is lovely shes so young at heart, very independant ( lives alone) but the family ( me and siblings ) make the decisions even though she does have faculties. im kinda being out voted in wanting a good healthy diet for my mam. I stick to the diet. they give her chocolate and treats and they even got this doctor to write me a note which he even signed sayin level 15 is ok :/ I think I will see another doctor and see what they have to say . Thank you for your time .
Sounds like your mum is pretty with it and probably able to consider the risks/benefits herself - have you had a chat to her about it? If she is able to make the decision then it should be her decision, if you don't feel mum is able to fully consider the more complicated, long term bits you should at least take into account her views on the bits she can understand - you know, does she really love chocolate? Is a lovely bit of cake her favourite treat? Would she feel deprived and left out if she had to give it up and couldn't have tea and biscuits when her lovely family come round to visit? Does she feel alright in herself when her levels are up at 15? I appreciate it is probably a really difficult conversation to have, but if you feel you are being out voted, do try to make sure your mums vote is the most important one. She sounds very lucky to have such a lovely family who are all trying to do the best for her.
When I was first 'labelled' I went to speak to my uncle - he is the only person in my family similarly afflicted! Which purely by chance) at a family event we found out he was earlier this year (before I knew I had 'it')As he sat munching on his Chocolate Digestive, he told me he couldn't even remember how long ago he was diagnosed - possibly about the time he retired. He goes for his check ups etc when called and understands nothing of monitoring, LCHF, Fbgs, etc etc - and had no idea what his hba1c results are - he just knows the nurse tells him it is fine! He just said he ate healthily and made sure he goes for a 'good walk', but does enjoy 'treats' like choccy bikkies, and sponge pudding - he really likes them. Not possibly archetypical - but there you go!Sounds like your mum is pretty with it and probably able to consider the risks/benefits herself - have you had a chat to her about it? If she is able to make the decision then it should be her decision, if you don't feel mum is able to fully consider the more complicated, long term bits you should at least take into account her views on the bits she can understand - you know, does she really love chocolate? Is a lovely bit of cake her favourite treat? Would she feel deprived and left out if she had to give it up and couldn't have tea and biscuits when her lovely family come round to visit? Does she feel alright in herself when her levels are up at 15? I appreciate it is probably a really difficult conversation to have, but if you feel you are being out voted, do try to make sure your mums vote is the most important one. She sounds very lucky to have such a lovely family who are all trying to do the best for her.
By the way, as a footnote to the above story....When I was first 'labelled' I went to speak to my uncle - he is the only person in my family similarly afflicted! Which purely by chance) at a family event we found out he was earlier this year (before I knew I had 'it')As he sat munching on his Chocolate Digestive, he told me he couldn't even remember how long ago he was diagnosed - possibly about the time he retired. He goes for his check ups etc when called and understands nothing of monitoring, LCHF, Fbgs, etc etc - and had no idea what his hba1c results are - he just knows the nurse tells him it is fine! He just said he ate healthily and made sure he goes for a 'good walk', but does enjoy 'treats' like choccy bikkies, and sponge pudding - he really likes them. Not possibly archetypical - but there you go!
By the way - the family event we were at when he told us was his 90th birthday party. He still lives independently, is fully compus menus, has only just given up driving - and has a great social life! Who am I to tell him he shouldn't have some of what he enjoys at 90!!
P.S. I know I am where I am through **** lifestyle and being overweight over the last few years, however if there is a partial genetic link also, I just hope and prey I get some of his longevity genes!
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