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- Type of diabetes
- Type 2
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- Diet only
I think the majority of newly diagnosed diabetics go through a period of shock no matter how they approached it or even which type they have. It is after all a not insignificant lifelong diagnosis to come to terms with.I was one of those sad people who was shocked I had diabetes. Shocked and angry. I could not get my head around the reasons for it. It always struck me that if you are Type 1 , it’s autoimmune and there is nothing you can do. Not your fault. The discourse around Type 2 however, is completely different. Websites list the causes, bad diet, being over weight and lack of exercise. There is an underlying blame attached to these short lists. Had you eaten better then you would not be diabetic. That’s why we get members in a state of distress thinking they’ve brought their diabetes on themselves. Then the medical community perpetuates this guilt by sending you off with dietary advice, and an exercise plan. They tell you to lose weight and here you are take this prescription for Metformin, see you in a year.
I read, very recently, in a comment section on Type 2 diabetes, in a National paper, the poster quipped type 2s spend too long in the crisp aisle. No thought behind the comment, just a buy-in repeating a thoroughly ignorant trope.
I can relate to athletes being shocked at a type 2 diagnosis. Why do athletes get type 2? They see the narratives , bad diet, overweight, in active. No wonder. It’s two sides of the same coin. They are fit, and what do you say to someone who eats a healthy diet and is fit? And outside of the diabetic community who has even heard of insulin resistance or a depleted cell mass in the pancreas. Very few, but the world and its dog can recite bad diet and obesity as the cause. That’s a pretty powerful narrative and it will be a hard one to break.
And If you are thin, lean and very fit where do you go with that diet/weight/lack of activity narrative. There is nowhere to go with it. The reality is if you are thin/lean and very fit and you have type 2 diabetes there are very few options. The only thing that came from my very low carb diet was weight loss that I didnt need to lose. As much as people want to lose weight, one doesn’t want to look like they need A good meal either. I have read too many reports about thin and fit T2 diabetics with very poor outcomes. Contrast this with over weight individuals who can put their diabetes in remission by change of diet and weight loss and their outcome is significantly greater.
With no real clear cut answer from the medical research community as to why some people develop insulin resistance, and no real understanding as to why some people lose beta cell mass, we are no further forward.
You make a lot of very valid points regarding diagnosis when you don’t fit the stereotype and where do you go when you already do all the recommended things which adds a layer of complexity. As you say those with a lot of weight to lose, eat a plethora of carbs and that have sedentary lives have lots of scope to make changes. And I too have seen people in here make comparatively small changes and have huge results. I would note that low carb and even keto doesn’t have to mean weight loss so does leave that door open to you if a type 2. An increase in protein and healthy fats should put a halt to the unwanted losses whilst maintaining the benefits of low carb eating for blood glucose purposes.
Personally I was kind of in a middle ground. I had weight to lose but wasnt obese, I ate relatively few carbs already just through personal preferences and whilst not sporty wasn’t inactive. I was told I didn’t “look like a type 2”. I drastically lowered carbs to keto and lost lots of weight but still only just reached the prediabetic levels. Despite maintaining these changes (with not insignificant and non typical in society dietary choices) for 4 yrs my fundamental carb tolerance /insulin sensitivity didn’t appear to improve much either, although health markers improved and therefore hopefully the risk of long term problems lessened. And the single action of increasing carbs, rather than overall intake, has lead to weight gain and less good bgl. I feel angry we have such poor dietary guidance with regards to excessive carbs, and of the normalising of the processed junk, seed oil laden, anti dietary fat food environment that encourages obesity, lethergy and insulin resistance. I feel offended people assume I stuffed my face with sugar and crisps (I didn’t) because of the limited awareness of causes beyond the obvious.
I am curious though, were you sad and angry because it felt like you had nowhere to go to help yourself or was it because you were being accused of being fat, lazy and brought it on yourself when those things weren’t true? Both would be entirely understandable imo.
Perhaps if it’s the latter though consider that there are others out there feeling as offended by the incomplete list of causes and the implied blame as you. And by the media, the medical profession, the public and even those with diabetes themselves that weren’t the obvious candidates perpetuating the fallacy that this diagnosis is ENTIRELY down to poor personal choices does a lot of people a disservice.
Guilt and self blame are rarely motivational even if there are elements of those choices in play either. What needs addressing is why those poor choices are made in the first place and what other factors are in play that this current blame game is ignoring.