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<blockquote data-quote="Grant_Vicat" data-source="post: 2302492" data-attributes="member: 388932"><p>Hi [USER=514335]@Matt_Harman[/USER] Here is part of something I wrote at the age of 51:</p><p>"At the time I was affected by a teenage resentment of my condition, a perverse aversion to outside opinion, and a complete lack of awareness of the significance of any information. As I write this I can see all kinds of interference on the computer screen caused by retinopathy: I am unable to keep my hands steady (not because of Vin de Pays de L’Herault); and I am aware that my kidneys are struggling to survive. All this was wrapped up in those few words in the above letter. Throughout my life I have been regularly reminded, either through personal contacts, diabetic journals, visits to clinics, or through books, that all diabetics run these risks and that the condition, if unmanaged, can be fatal. Why is it that teenagers happily (?) ignore these warnings? On several occasions in the last thirty years I have been contacted by doctors, asking me whether I would be prepared to talk to a sixteen year old who is ignoring advice. Of course I would. Could they get in touch with me? On each occasion, nobody has telephoned. I think at this stage in life, when hormones are unruly, faces look like Spotted **** with a hairy frame, girls (or boys) are worryingly important, sexuality is uncertain, parents are a bloody menace and so on, the last thing a person needs is an uncomfortable label. I never wanted to talk about it. I’ve more than made up for it now. I have been able to manage The Enemy far more effectively since I have been prepared to discuss it. But, even at the age of twenty this can be daunting."</p><p>It was only when I went to uni that I was unable to hide equipment etc - glass syringe in dedicated saucepan, a loaned test metre the size of a house brick, and very erratic control, that I was suddely able to feel acceptable, ridiculous as that sounds. I must say that once this transformation had occurred, I felt so much better about life. I think it also helped me to take the regime very seriously. Hence I am able to write this 40 years later! I hope life improves for you quickly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Grant_Vicat, post: 2302492, member: 388932"] Hi [USER=514335]@Matt_Harman[/USER] Here is part of something I wrote at the age of 51: "At the time I was affected by a teenage resentment of my condition, a perverse aversion to outside opinion, and a complete lack of awareness of the significance of any information. As I write this I can see all kinds of interference on the computer screen caused by retinopathy: I am unable to keep my hands steady (not because of Vin de Pays de L’Herault); and I am aware that my kidneys are struggling to survive. All this was wrapped up in those few words in the above letter. Throughout my life I have been regularly reminded, either through personal contacts, diabetic journals, visits to clinics, or through books, that all diabetics run these risks and that the condition, if unmanaged, can be fatal. Why is it that teenagers happily (?) ignore these warnings? On several occasions in the last thirty years I have been contacted by doctors, asking me whether I would be prepared to talk to a sixteen year old who is ignoring advice. Of course I would. Could they get in touch with me? On each occasion, nobody has telephoned. I think at this stage in life, when hormones are unruly, faces look like Spotted **** with a hairy frame, girls (or boys) are worryingly important, sexuality is uncertain, parents are a bloody menace and so on, the last thing a person needs is an uncomfortable label. I never wanted to talk about it. I’ve more than made up for it now. I have been able to manage The Enemy far more effectively since I have been prepared to discuss it. But, even at the age of twenty this can be daunting." It was only when I went to uni that I was unable to hide equipment etc - glass syringe in dedicated saucepan, a loaned test metre the size of a house brick, and very erratic control, that I was suddely able to feel acceptable, ridiculous as that sounds. I must say that once this transformation had occurred, I felt so much better about life. I think it also helped me to take the regime very seriously. Hence I am able to write this 40 years later! I hope life improves for you quickly. [/QUOTE]
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