Hi nannoo
I think you got some really good answers there from the lovely people that responded to your post, from the information and food suggested you can put together a diet to suit YOUR needs.
If you decide on giving low carb a try all you need to remember is to cut out bread, pasta, rice, potatoes, root vegetables (only have a very small amount), the high carb fruits and anything with flour/breadcrumbs - so it still leaves you with all the meat, fish, cheese, dairy products, vegetables, berries and so on, You and your husband enjoy cooking so it should be quite exciting to try out a new way of eating, you are allowed sauces made with cream etc, you are also allowed to drink your wine.
I have in the past atttended Weight Watchers and other groups, I tried the grapefruit diet, the egg diet, the cabbage soup diet, and every other diet in between, none lasted and any weight that I lost I put double that amount straight back on again.
You hit it on the nail there when you say you are a carb junkie, so was I, carbs are addictive, I then started to low carb and havent looked back since, years later I am still weighing just over 9st, I am never hungry, carb cravings have gone totally and reduced carbs is my way of life, i dont even have to think about it any more, it comes to me automatically.
I know you live in Switzerland, but low carbing is easy to do there too, you do get all those lovely fresh ingredients there to devise your own low carb/carb reduced meals, thats what we do in the UK, there are not that many low carb ready meals around, so its no difference where you live?
With low carb you dont have to weigh out ingredients either, you say that you just have a few vegetables on the side with your meals, well do you actually eat a whole rainbow? And how many portions of fruit/veg do you have per day, remember we should be eating 5 portions a day, one portion is a decent handful of any veg or fruit otherwise you probably dont get all your vitamins/minerals anyway...
I cannot tell you how low carb you need to go, that depends on your test results, you will soon learn which of the foods give you spikes and which keep you nice and steady. Look around the forum for meal suggestions and be as inventive as you want to be.
Good luck
Karen