Having just read a diet on patient.co.uk, recommended by diabetes.org.uk, I am fed up to the back teeth of the amount of contradiction.
As my test kit was given to me by GP ( not normally done, I'm told ) I only have a limited number of tests which is basically to make sure my BG comes down from 26. After that, it's down to me to hope my diet works.
I do not have or will have the opportunity to monitor my BG from the effects of my diet.
I've decided to take a break from the bewildering array of advice, as after 3 days of it, I am non the wiser and got a headache.
Many thanks to all for your replies and advice.
I really feel for you! And totally understand the headache.But as others have said - you really have come to the right place. And the contradictory advice will never go away, alas. I wish I didn't have to say that. It really is going to be a matter of you figuring out what works best for you (and your family).
That's where that that BG testing advice comes in (and is REALLY good advice.)
I also really feel for you about the expense of the test strips if you have to pay for your own. (You don't live somewhere that has them on prescription? This is too bad!) (Check that with your GP - s/he may not realise that you intend to continue to 'eat and meter' to help control your blood glucose levels over time. If you live in a country with socialised medicine those countries usually encourage diabetics to test their own blood glucose - to manage the diabetes -- and pay for it as part of the national health budget as the studies HUGELY support the fact that it works well, and it being cheaper in the long run for the countries. Horrible way to look at diabetes, but countries' accountants do, it seems.)
And last but not least. When I got diagnosed I didn't find the line of my own home country very helpful at all - that getting a diagnosis of T2D didn't mean I would have to eat differently to other people, other than what is officially called a healthy diet. (ie the conventional food pyramid, with carbs in bread and pasta and so on well and truly featuring.) I found that simply to be not true at all. Even though I was 52 and had been feeding myself and my two children, now adult, for years, I had to re-learn to shop (as outlined in a post above), re-learn to cook to ensure the quality and sugar-free nature of the ingredients, I had to re-discover about health and nutrition, and I certainly had to re-learn to move my body more. It was quite simply nothing short of a life transformation - and I don't believe it helps diabetics who want to gain control of their health to say otherwise.
But those things that they call 'lifestyle changes' really do work, to some extent, even to a large extent. Because, to be glib, we are our bodies.
So no wonder you have been way stressed and suffering! I hope you get to watch some good comedies on the tele, and lovely movies with your kids, perhaps, as a way to de-stress. (For me - it was that - and walking.) And that this forum becomes a place for you to clear your head and relieve some of the anxiety, and get a good range of information and good support, from others, who are, more or less, in the same position as you.