emilykarenzzaa04
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- Type of diabetes
- Type 1
- Treatment type
- Insulin
Hey. Im just so fed up with it recently and have been 'too busy' to bother anymore. Just having a late night think about what I am doing and getting frustrated that I can't even be bothered to look after myself. This doesn't happen usually aha and was fine for a year or so with good BMs etc. Now im forgetting to do blood sugars and injections and I need motivation to look after myself again! Any help or advice would be so helpful.Hi @emilykarenzzaa04
I have had type 1 for 18 years, and only a few months ago I decided to take control of my diabetes.
I understand how you feel, and I was feeling the frustration of the same talks over and over again at the hospital but I recently found an amazing consultant and it has really changed my mindset. I trust him, and respect him. He talks to me as a person, not a medical record
Happy to chat xxx
I'm getting close to where I want to be but it has taken years and years of struggle. What I always found was that it is superbly overwhelming to go from not caring to trying to care as there are so many different aspects. What I always found useful was breaking it down. So one week would be spent working on my waking bg. That was it, nothing beyond that. Then the next week I started small adjustments to what I was injecting for meals. Step by step I got my hb1ac from 9.6 to 6.9!! Beautiful symmetry ahaha - break it down and focus only on that one thing. That's the only thing that worked for me, and got me into better habitsHi everyone,
Just wondered if anyone on here would be able to re-motivate me to care about my diabetes. My nurses and consultant try but I cant be dealing with the patronising talks anymore. Type one for 6 years now and having a bit of a low time with it all. If anyone wants to contact me for any reason feel free
Thankyou so much for that reply. It really does make you think about how lucky we really are. Life can be **** but hey, makes us stronger xI know how hard it is to be motivated. There's a lot of times I just want to lie in bed all day and not eat or do my injections. However I do get up and do them and eat as at the moment I have neuropathy, which I've had since being diagnosed, and I just think to myself, would I rather more complications or to be as healthy and happy as I can be at the moment.
That's not easy and with everything happening in my life at the moment it is a wonder I still do anything. Just remember that you want to be as happy as you can be and be thankful that you are alive.
That sounds like such a good idea! Will start that first thing tomorrow and hopefully get the same results! xI'm getting close to where I want to be but it has taken years and years of struggle. What I always found was that it is superbly overwhelming to go from not caring to trying to care as there are so many different aspects. What I always found useful was breaking it down. So one week would be spent working on my waking bg. That was it, nothing beyond that. Then the next week I started small adjustments to what I was injecting for meals. Step by step I got my hb1ac from 9.6 to 6.9!! Beautiful symmetry ahaha - break it down and focus only on that one thing. That's the only thing that worked for me, and got me into better habits
Thankyou! I love hearing about other peoples stories and will keep you up to date with mineHi emilykarenzzaa04
Motivation is a strange thing, I've found. Once you find the movitation that works for you, you'll feel so much better.When I was first diagnosed (Type 2) I just couldn't get 'into' any kind of diet. I'd tried WW and SW for weight loss previously and it just drove me crackers trying to work out what /what not to eat. It would take me all day trying to work it out so you can imagine how depressing I found the idea of giving up all/most of my favourite foods - so I didn't even get off the ground
However, when prescribed tablets that could cause hypos, I was given a meter, at last, in spite of asking for one initially (and on several occasions - just being told Type 2's don't need to test which, to my mind, merely belittles the condition and probably increases incidence of complications later, but that's another story) The meter and test strips turned out not to be much of a motivator but the scales were - I started to increase weight and I was already overweight so, one day, I felt I didn't want to gain more weight so I had only one option - yes, to cut down my foods
Since then, I've gradually cut down, then cut out, such things as bread, potatoes, pasta etc and, during the past year I've managed to see my weight drop consistently and almost 3st gone, plus my HbA1c reduce from 8.1 to 6.0%.
Also, a further motivation for me, I got a Freestyle Libre in mid-August of this year and this alone has been a huge motivator. Fortunately, I can afford these sensors - they're not cheap, but I feel it's mainly because of the Libre that I've got down to this level, weight and A1c. Several weeks ago, the sensor failed and I didn't have another on hand to replace it so it was several days before I got a replacement sent and also ordered more. During that time, ie without the Libre, I was tending to 'cheat' on my diet, eating a few things that I fancied but shouldn't have re glucose levels, which just proved to me that the Libre is a very strong motivator, for MEOne reason, I don't like to mess up the lovely graph which is shows and, secondly, I am spending money on this so it's stupid not to try to stick to sensible foods to keep my glucose levels to the optimum
As a result of the Libre, I've also just recently been stopped the Glipizide tabs as I haven't really needed them lately, due to loss of weight and careful (low carb) eating. My GP is amazed at the turn around
So, good luck to finding YOUR ideal motivation. As already said here, you'll get so much support from these forums, to say nothing of the very valuable advice that will be forthcoming. I'm now going to tag @daisy1 who will post some good information re diabetes. Apologies to daisy1 and yourself if you've already had it posted. Hopefully, this information will also re-ignite your enthusiasm to take control.
Looking forward to hearing your progress
Thnakyou so much! Love the cat by the way! I understand what you mean with the CBT, luckily just been signed off for other reasons but I can see why other aspects of my life can affect my diabetes. Slowly but surely I want to get my sugars down and feel better in the long term. Stay safe xHi @emilykarenzzaa04 I can empathise with you...I was diagnosed 6 years ago and shortly after diagnosed with depression. This caused me to abuse myself through binge eating and neglecting my health in general. I spent 2 years with a cbt counsellor (I've other issues as well) and have to say once I overcame the depression I found my motivation. I also think I was in denial about my diabetes diagnosis only fully accepting it recently. I have no tips as I feel it's different for each individual but I'm definitely here for you if you need a chatall the best xxx
Most important thing is to not get wrapped up in the details, nothing is going to go perfectly every day and giving yourself some leeway means overall you're more likely to keep trying, or at least that was what happened to me!That sounds like such a good idea! Will start that first thing tomorrow and hopefully get the same results! x
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