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What did our parents do in the war?

Another fascinating story! We hear so often that they never spoke of what they experienced during the war, quite understandably I think, but it would be fascinating to know their stories wouldn't it.
 
The not talking about what they did and went through is a common theme, mostly because of the horrors of reliving the war. Mostly, not because it was secret but how do you tell your loved that you probably killed another human, who is someone's son, brother, father etc?
Most would say it is the shame of having to do that! A perfect human reaction. Understandable I would say.
I have never been to war but I have friends who have and I talked to a lot of veterans, in all of the services including the merchant marine. With my locale and my upbringing it would be difficult not to!
As I have researched and studied the Second World War in particular, the lucky few who made it through, why would they want to relive it!
I have nightmares about the years of constant and boring job I did until I semi retired!
Fancy living with that on your concious and you had to be really fortunate to see a psychiatrist. No wonder they turned recluse!
 
I recently watched a true film called The Railway Man about a soldier who was made to build the Bridge on the River Kwai which completely (understandably) unhinged him. He couldn't talk about it either but miraculously after many years of suffering with his memories went back and found one of the guards who had tortured him. Somehow he was able to forgive him and they remained friends to the end of their lives.
A wonderful story, but I doubt many would have been able to forgive. Too painful.
 
Despite fighting the Japenese my dad always had a Mitsubishi car. Especially when his ford pop died over the pennines and left us stranded.
 
Despite fighting the Japenese my dad always had a Mitsubishi car. Especially when his ford pop died over the pennines and left us stranded.

Many years ago, my ex father-in-law was staying in a hotel in Blackpool with a group of his mates that were attending a Japanese POW re-union. I took my toddler daughter (his granddaughter) to see him at the hotel and parked my Nissan on the front forecourt in full view of the lounge they were sitting in. It never occurred to me, but my goodness I got in bother about it! I was very embarrassed, but they forgave me!
 
Great thread @nosher8355, I'm obviously much younger than all of you old guys, my grandad was in the RAF in WWII and was something to do with communications, he would never talk about it but he apparently helped to develop radio comms in the planes.
 
My Father never spoke about the War. I would have been fascinated if he had.
 
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