Is it not because it's not the absolute high that causes damage, but long term sustained highs. For example when pregnant I would religiously correct any highs the minute they happened (I was testing hourly towards the end) so they were never in my system for very long, and I believe this is what led me to have a successful pregnancy and a baby who was actually under the average weight (although I believe he'd have been average if I'd carried to full term) rather than over.
Interestingly whilst doing a post dinner party trick of 'what's your blood sugar' with a group of non diabetic friends, one who'd recently drank a large glass of apple juice registered 8.4. She was down to 4.something an hour later so I don't think she's diabetic or prediabetic, I think she just ingested a large amount of sugar and it took a little while for her body to play catch up.
I've been told by the DSN not to test post meal at all, and that even if I did it's ok to go up to 11. She said it is the pre meal reading that's important. As I've been having too much insulin lately, with lots of hypos, I will follow this, but I believe she meant this for everyone not just those with lots of hypos.