Hi,
I've had PCOS for years and this year was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes, I can absolutely relate to your story and am no stranger to binge eating and all the other horrible unwanted effects of PCOS.
Once I had my diabetes diagnosis I knew I had to do something about it and have managed to keep up a low carb intake for six months now, I can't say it's easy but it's definitely worth it as I feel an awful lot better now and have managed to lose some weight. I agree with one of the above posters who said don't concentrate on the losing weight but keeping track of blood sugar was my main concern and the weight loss was a happy side effect that came with it, progress with both of these certainly helped me on days where I could have easily sat down and eaten a few large chocolate bars in one. Now I still have occasional days where I eat a bit too much but it's nowhere near what I used to crave. Using a meter at least four or five times a day to find out what sends you high trains you to avoid the bad stuff and enjoy things like cheese, cream and nuts.
If you can try to lower your carbs then after a week or so you will hopefully be feeling better, clothes will feel looser and your sugar levels will come down, as I say it's not easy and there will be ups and downs but it will be worth it in the long run.
I found Yasmin to be a really good pill to go on and seems to be recommended for people with PCOS but it's an individual thing.
Good luck to you in your journey and do use this forum, whether it's asking questions or just reading through posts to see you're not alone in this.
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