I was at a first rheumatologist appointment yesterday, and after I’d asked a couple of pertinent questions, the doctor sort of looked at me with an impressed face and said “do you have a medical background?”. No, but a fair bit of science and background reading on the reasons I was referred in the first place. The appointment went at a much higher level of discourse after that. I suppose they have to assume the patient might not have a great deal of medical/nutrition/science/anatomical/immunological knowledge to start with. I’ve found the problems start when they don’t take on board that you can understand all the information and continue to talk at you like you’re six.
I’ve started asking to be copied in to the correspondence now, which means I can read things at my leisure and double check anything I’m not sure on.