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Diabetics R Us

Guzzler said:
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That s##s . They're funny, running around. Depending on how much my brain works tomorrow with the heat I'll try again.
And stupid. I can see the video right here. It comes from Facebook and everything is accessable to anyone there. So I'm clearly not up to this modern stuff.
 
Had a bit of an upset Wednesday afternoon. My rule for the last few years has been that if at all possible and even if it takes three times as long if I am able to do a job in the garden then leave me be until I ask for help.

So in yesterday's case my son laid out some weed fabric and my job was to trim it to fit a sort of 'L' shape. The L was awkward in that it is adjacent to a hedge on one side and fence on t'other with a width of about 18". I went great guns crawling through ferns and even managed to avoid falling into the pond. All done and then asked son to help me rise and reach my chair. I just could not move. Son could not get to my side so went around to help me from behind. Still could not move. He had to get a neighbour and between them they got me up and out. The problem was one of complete immobility, no movement in my right leg whatsoever and left leg too weak to take the strain.

I laughed it off in front of my son and the neighbour but this has been a red flag. I was aware that this would eventually happen but now that it has actually happened I am feeling emotionally numb. My son was shocked, he knows that this is new and that it is probably a new chapter for me.

Trying really hard not to shut down atm.
 
@Guzzler that sounds like a terrible moment for you. I don't know your history and don't wish to pry but is it something that can be rectified? I hope you are feeling better this morning.
 
Morning all

It was a bit cooler last night. I was in bed by 8pm cos I was shattered, woke up a few times, once with cramp but I slept really well in between.

We got a nice surprise in work yesterday, one of the local solicitors brought us round some Magnums and I know it was naughty but I had one :eek: and it was delicious.

Have a good day.

H :)
 
heh said:
@Guzzler that sounds like a terrible moment for you. I don't know your history and don't wish to pry but is it something that can be rectified? I hope you are feeling better this morning.
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Thanks Heh. The condition cannot be put right. I am monitored and will mention this episode at my next clinic appointment. I am feeling OK. Determined to finish up in the garden today before the forcasted rain/storms. This just means I will no longer be able to work in the garden if no one is at home on standby.
 
Guzzler said:
Had a bit of an upset Wednesday afternoon. My rule for the last few years has been that if at all possible and even if it takes three times as long if I am able to do a job in the garden then leave me be until I ask for help.

So in yesterday's case my son laid out some weed fabric and my job was to trim it to fit a sort of 'L' shape. The L was awkward in that it is adjacent to a hedge on one side and fence on t'other with a width of about 18". I went great guns crawling through ferns and even managed to avoid falling into the pond. All done and then asked son to help me rise and reach my chair. I just could not move. Son could not get to my side so went around to help me from behind. Still could not move. He had to get a neighbour and between them they got me up and out. The problem was one of complete immobility, no movement in my right leg whatsoever and left leg too weak to take the strain.

I laughed it off in front of my son and the neighbour but this has been a red flag. I was aware that this would eventually happen but now that it has actually happened I am feeling emotionally numb. My son was shocked, he knows that this is new and that it is probably a new chapter for me.

Trying really hard not to shut down atm.
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I am upset to read this. I wish there was something that could be done. Sending you lots of Lancashire hugs. xx
 
O, @Guzzler , that's just ******* *** (insert bad language of preference).
Another hug coming your way in hopes it will help a little with accepting life with an uncooperative body. And enjoy your garden today and in the future. Family, friends and neighbours will probably be happy to pick you up whenever it's needed.
 
Thank you all for your kindness.

I am now on first name terms with my neighbour across the road, this after he had to push part of my anatomy that is best left unmentioned...
 
Evening all

Been packing the motorhome for another weekend away, going straight after work tomorrow. Going for a walk when the Tour de France programme finishes cos it's a bit cooler now.

Hope you've all had a good day, especially @Guzzler
 
Oh @Guzzler, how frustrating. So hard to accept another set back. Have another hug.
Is it possible for you to have an alert alarm? You can get them with a pendant to wear in the garden, so you can get help should you need it.
I am guessing you will have a think about what happened, then find a way of avoiding problems in the future, because it seems independence, resilience and resourcefulness are part of your character.
 
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On a lighter note, I found one of those jacuzzi-mats (or whaddyacallem in English) at the trhift store and we had this genius idea of combining it with half a bottle of bath bubbles (or whatsitcalled)!
The pretty teenager is my neighbour.
 
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On a lighter note, I found one of those jacuzzi-mats (or whaddyacallem in English at the trhift store) and we had this genius idea of combining it with half a bottle of bath bubbles (or whatsitcalled)!
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Seriously, between Guinea pigs and inflatable plastic tubs with bubbles. You have more fun the all of us together!!!
 
Pipp said:
Oh @Guzzler, how frustrating. So hard to accept another set back. Have another hug.
Is it possible for you to have an alert alarm? You can get them with a pendant to wear in the garden, so you can get help should you need it.
I am guessing you will have a think about what happened, then find a way of avoiding problems in the future, because it seems independence, resilience and resourcefulness are part of your character.
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Thanks Pipp. I was offered a personal alarm but refused it, I was 48/49 at the time and having a hard time just accepting stuff as every aid I accepted felt like a personal failure. I will think again on getting one.
 
Guzzler said:
Thanks Pipp. I was offered a personal alarm but refused it, I was 48/49 at the time and having a hard time just accepting stuff as every aid I accepted felt like a personal failure. I will think again on getting one.
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As an alternative, would it feel better to keep in touch with neighbours and make sure you have your phone in your pocket? Just to make sure you won't get stuck in your garden?
 
Antje77 said:
As an alternative, would it feel better to keep in touch with neighbours and make sure you have your phone in your pocket? Just to make sure you won't get stuck in your garden?
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I was thinking the same last night. I am not of the generation that is wedded to their phones but if and when I find my mobile I shall just have to staple it to my face. Lol
 
Guzzler said:
I was thinking the same last night. I am not of the generation that is wedded to their phones but if and when I find my mobile I shall just have to staple it to my face. Lol
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Well being glued (less painful than staples) to your phone might be an undesirable treat in youngsters, but it might also feel a lot less 'handicapped' than one of those emergency buttons around your neck. I trust you'll find a solution that allows you to be free in your garden and with which you're comfortable as well!
 
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