On the key point of "everyone's glucose control response is different" - I spend £50 every few months on a freestyle libre sensor, and then I can monitor in real time how I react to different foods for two weeks. It's brilliant for motivation (I'm really happy when I see a 6 and over the moon if I see 5, but "oh **** better be careful" when I see the higher numbers unless I've eaten), but also I find it really helpful to understand where I need to be more careful, and where it doesn't matter.
For what its worth, in my case I find
(a) BG goes up and down as you might expect with different foods, mostly no surprises (coffeemate bad, cream good) and it is just simply mirrors the grams of carbs, but for the same quantity of carbs better to have a mix.
(b) For immediate effect, 20 continuous gentle exercise (a walk, or gardening) has the best immediate result, stronger exercise is better for longer term control,
(c) Over a whole day the most important effect on BG I notice is not the food I have just eaten, but the amount of carbs in the past. If I have overdone the carbs over a few days previously, when the BG goes up and down, I see the base level it returns to stays higher.
If I am reasonably careful (
(d) The longer I have been strict (trying to be QUOTE]
I found this helpful for ideas.