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"What have you eaten" Parallel Chat

Morning all on this beautiful sunny day and what a good morning for me. I'm very excited.... my son and dil land today for 2 weeks. I have seen them during the year but it's still wonderful when they come. I'll make my tuna melt muffins today and I've written the recipe out for him! I might have a couple of them for my tea with salad instead of boiled eggs.
 
All a bit rushed this morning because I overslept (once I got settled into the big chair) so no time for breakfast. Then when I got back from getting my legs done, I fell asleep again for another hour so by the time I was awake enough, it was too late for breakfast or brunch. Just reheated some of the coconut spicy beef from a couple of days ago and that will be the one meal today.

Hugo has arrived for his holiday. His gear was delivered last night and Em's big brother brought him up - a half mile walk which is no mean feat being an elderly dog with such short legs. He has lazed around most of the time since - did try to get up on the big chair but actually gave up after I said NO and told him to get down. Just had to do that a couple of times and now he seems to have given up. He gets fed at lunchtime and again in the evening but B hadn't fed him, so I just did. Alistair told me he is always quiet these days and very lazy but B did warn me that when he is fed, he gets very excited and energetic for a short time. He also barks a lot at that time. That's exactly what he did. Really loud barking and running around the house as though demented for a short time. He did stop barking though, when I told him to, so all's well. My goodness though, my ears!

Alistair says that the dog gets very stubborn with DIL although he is obedient to everyone else. He thought it might be a male/female thing but he's alright with me. Perhaps it's something to do with the pitch of the voice. DIL, like Em, has a high pitched voice (natural sopranos) whereas I am a natural contralto and am often mistaken for Neil over the phone.

Just had a visit from Em's big sister with her 2 daughters. The elder one is very stand-offish but to my surprise, the youngest one (4 yesterday) ran to me and gave me a big hug. Such a change from a few months ago when she wouldn't come into the house, never mind approach me.
 
Was supposed to be a day where I got a lot of things done and ticked off my to do list....

Various phones calls and texts sparked more calls and texts

11:00 3 scrambled eggs witha little grated cheese

Hours dancing, but a friend had a fall so took her to medical centre, then son called and I had to divert to sort out an electrician at his house.

Not home again until 16:30
1 lc chocolate brownie with greek yoghurt and coffee ice cream

7-8 pm at pub for a quiz but was very crowded and noisy and the sound system kept squawking. Had chicken curry (no rice) and 2 glasses red wine, but then left as it was triggering a migraine.

At home, feet up, cheese and celery and a good drama on tv to watch in peace. Bliss.

Items crossed off to do list = 1 (out of 8)
 
Hugo has arrived for his holiday. His gear was delivered last night and Em's big brother brought him up - a half mile walk which is no mean feat being an elderly dog with such short legs. He has lazed around most of the time since - did try to get up on the big chair but actually gave up after I said NO and told him to get down. Just had to do that a couple of times and now he seems to have given up. He gets fed at lunchtime and again in the evening but B hadn't fed him, so I just did. Alistair told me he is always quiet these days and very lazy but B did warn me that when he is fed, he gets very excited and energetic for a short time. He also barks a lot at that time. That's exactly what he did. Really loud barking and running around the house as though demented for a short time. He did stop barking though, when I told him to, so all's well. My goodness though, my ears!

Alistair says that the dog gets very stubborn with DIL although he is obedient to everyone else. He thought it might be a male/female thing but he's alright with me. Perhaps it's something to do with the pitch of the voice. DIL, like Em, has a high pitched voice (natural sopranos) whereas I am a natural contralto and am often mistaken for Neil over the phone.
You and Hugo seem to be getting along famously @Annb.
 
In Dutch we have a saying where 'the soul travels by horse', and the horse seems to be catching up with me now. Do you have a saying like that in English?

Some thank you messages will have to be sent to various people who have given me a very warm welcome and went out of their way to make my holiday a wonderful one, but I needed to wait for my horse-riding soul to catch up with my car first!
The soul travels on horseback comes from a folk saying @Antje77. When we return home, following a trip away, it may take a day or two before we feel we have fully arrived. Our soul travelling on horseback has yet to catch up with us.
 
Morning all. Out for lunch today with the family. Except for my grandson. He is not very well , he has a barking cough so I can't go near him.. Saw my son yesteday and will see my daughter-in-law today. I gave him his birthday present because it was far too heavy to send. It was a stone stepping stone for the garden with the Leeds United emblem carved into it. I bought it at Heckington Show, He has been a lifelong Leeds supporter and he was delighted with it, I'm happy to say. Have a nice day all. I will! :joyful:
 
You and Hugo seem to be getting along famously @Annb.
We're getting along but he's very demanding. Wants attention the whole time but I'm afraid he's going to be disappointed in that. I can only do so much. However, grandson, B, has promised to come each day to take him for a walk, so he'll be happy with that. He does seem to have found a favourite place in the garden - underneath a huge fuchsia. He disappears completely from view and eventually emerges to go for stroll around the garden.

I'll have to think about breakfast. Probably scrambled eggs - quick and easy to do so I don't have to stand for too long - legs and back are pretty bad after a fairly active (for me) couple of days.

Keyed this in hours ago, but forgot to press the post button.
 
Had a demonstration of Hugo's relationship with B this afternoon. He very clearly loves him but he growls the whole time they are together. Growls and wags his tail at the same time, while clearly enjoying the petting. I think it is just Hugo's way of expressing pleasure and only sounds like a threatening noise. It's not a baring the teeth kind of growling, but his mouth and eyes are closed, his tail wagging away ten to the dozen as he leans blissfully on B requiring more attention. He doesn't do that with anyone else, but he did, briefly with me a little earlier. Never knew a dog to do that but Hugo is a very vocal dog, making little squeaks, rumbling growls and very loud barks. I just realised why he keeps demanding to have his throat scratched - his body is so long that his little back legs can't reach his neck, and he can't use his front legs either. It is amusing to watch him trying to scratch behind his front leg, he has to raise the front leg and try to reach the spot with his back leg. Then he falls over. Not that he scratches all the time, or I might be concerned.
 
Not a good night so took the opportunity of a bit of a lie in.
Skipped breakfast
L: hm Green soup with cream cheese. Yoghurt with 6 raspberries.
Made some lc yoghurt jellies as seem to be wanting sweet stuff.
Errands got frustrating. Having contacted Gp earlier this week to remind them to put my eye drops on repeat, as requested by consultant, finally told prescription ready but on collection only 2 months supply, not the 3 requested. Grr!
Bought some cheese at the Italian deli, and 3 cannoli for hubby, but ate one when I got home.
Sparked a migraine so slept.
D: salmon and prawns on buttered leeks, with cream cheese stirred through.

Still not feeling great and getting vision disturbances. Early night methinks.
Covid jab tomorrow
 
@Annb - as the dog is elderly, it may be that he is losing his hearing in some registers.
Thank you @Outlier. That makes absolute sense. High-frequency sounds are typically the first lost in age-related hearing loss both in humans and mammals in general.

High-pitched sounds such as children’s voices and women’s speech become difficult to hear clearly, especially where there are confusing background sounds.
 
Thank you @Outlier. That makes absolute sense. High-frequency sounds are typically the first lost in age-related hearing loss both in humans and mammals in general.

High-pitched sounds such as children’s voices and women’s speech become difficult to hear clearly, especially where there are confusing background sounds.
He may be like me then. My hearing is definitely missing those higher pitched notes. Most things come across as underwater sounds these days - I can hear Em and her mum, but they lack clarity, as do everyone else. Makes conversation difficult - and TV watching/listening.

Hugo was not popular with Neil this morning. I woke up to noises in the hall at 04.00 and got up to find Neil cleaning up after Hugo. I think his tum has been a bit upset overnight but he seems alright again now. Just as well I don't allow him in the bedrooms.
 
Breakfast was stir fried veg with an egg mixed through it. Hugo wanted some and tried to climb up onto me to get to it. Wasn't having any of that! Apart from anything else, I'm keeping strictly to instructions about food after last night.

2nd meal will be sausages with cabbage.
 
Went to bed /sleep at 11 last night, which is early for me. However woke at 04:30 and couldn't get off again so
B: 05:00 2 livlife toast with marmite. 2 yoghurt jellies
09:00 yoga
12:00 lunch, hm lc green soup, 8 King prawns.
12:15 covid jab (nearly forgot to go for it!!)
12:30 a little cheese, some hm lc brownie and a nut bar.
18:00 salad with cheese. Yoghurt jelly topped with 1 scoop blackcurrant sorbet and cream.
2 small glasses white wine
 
He may be like me then. My hearing is definitely missing those higher pitched notes. Most things come across as underwater sounds these days - I can hear Em and her mum, but they lack clarity, as do everyone else. Makes conversation difficult - and TV watching/listening.
Have you considered hearing aids? @Annb.

I wear hearing aids both ears. There's a strong history of age-related hearing loss in my family, so I was more or less prepared for deafness in later life!
 
Have you considered hearing aids? @Annb.

I wear hearing aids both ears. There's a strong history of age-related hearing loss in my family, so I was more or less prepared for deafness in later life!
I've had a hearing aid for my left ear (family history of left ear hearing loss) for many years but it was no help at all - same as my mother who also found it useless (NHS hearing aids). Even my brother who bought a really expensive hearing aid earlier this year has found that it wasn't really any help. I still have mine somewhere, but haven't used it for ages. I'm not going to bother trying to get an aid for my right ear. The old left one just irritated the ear anyway. I had problems years ago as an audio typist with the headset causing me to lose a level of hearing and had to give up the job because when doing the reception part of the job I couldn't hear what clients were saying - not a great deal of use in a role that required confidentiality, having to ask clients to speak up.
 
I also wear 2 hearing aids and find it difficult to hear properly when in company. If I turn them up to hear a person, I put up the outside noise too so it's no better. Frustrating too to have to keep saying 'pardon' or 'say that again'.
Even more frustrating for Neil, who has a very quiet voice, because I almost always have to ask him to repeat what he has said. It must be very annoying for him. Mind you - he should know by now to speak up/more clearly, but it doesn't come easily to him.
 
Breakfast: sausages with a little tomato. Had to ward off Hugo. He thinks that as soon as anyone moves, it must be time to eat. He's just not on. I do dislike a dog who keeps sitting, gazing longingly at what ever you are eating. Yesterday he tried to get onto the kitchen table to reach a plate of munke which Neil had made. He was told off in no uncertain terms. Still tries to get whatever is going though. I am feeding him exactly what he gets at home and he's not exactly a lightweight. He looks so resentful, though, when I tell him NO.

We only ever had one dog before - a collie called Shep. She was given to us (as a male pup) but some time after the furry bundle started to grow and get used to the name we'd given, we discovered that she was - SHE. We stuck with the name though because it could just as easily have been short for "Shepherdess". Anyway - she was a very well behaved girl; mostly quiet, very quickly house-trained, never aggressive and soon learned not to sit, staring and trying to persuade people to share their food with her. Useless sheepdog, but that's because we couldn't train her. Instead we taught her to stay away from sheep. She got on fine with our cats but the cats next door taught her to stay away from strange cats. In the end she was a great companion for my father after we lost my mother and we were broken hearted when she had to be put to sleep (arthritic back legs and heart problems). The SPCA man said we would be causing her unnecessary pain by trying to keep her alive. She was the one who taught Alistair not to be afraid of dogs.

If Hugo will give me the opportunity, I will shred some cabbage and maybe some other veg and braise with some more of the sausages for my 2nd meal.
 
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