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Help! I have so much weight to lose

I know its wishful thinking but I put a search into Google and got the same answer lots of times. I have 1lb to go and I will have lost 2stone and im looking for ways to loose it before I go on holiday in 4 weeks.
Im terrible at giving up near the end of things so its something that will keep me motivated .If its false then it will at least stop me eating to much :)

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I wish it were that simple, Jamrox.
Doesn't seem to work that way for me, more random.
No it doesn't work like that for me either. All calories are not equal, I have always found that liquid calories don't seem to do as much harm to me as solid ones. It's all very random
 
I know its wishful thinking but I put a search into Google and got the same answer lots of times. I have 1lb to go and I will have lost 2stone and im looking for ways to loose it before I go on holiday in 4 weeks.
Im terrible at giving up near the end of things so its something that will keep me motivated .If its false then it will at least stop me eating to much :)

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You will ace it. Get on yer bike missus, you have to lose 3 and a half ounces a week till your hol.
 
No it doesn't work like that for me either. All calories are not equal, I have always found that liquid calories don't seem to do as much harm to me as solid ones. It's all very random
Good, I had a beer for first time in 6 weeks watching the footy.
 
Good, I had a beer for first time in 6 weeks watching the footy.
Well I couldn't cope with watching footie without a can in my hand. It's just not natural, so I've got a whole stash of cans of Perrier and a few peanuts as a snack. I really have learnt my lesson from holiday. What a great match. Not long till my 4th one now......
 
Well I couldn't cope with watching footie without a can in my hand. It's just not natural, so I've got a whole stash of cans of Perrier and a few peanuts as a snack. I really have learnt my lesson from holiday. What a great match. Not long till my 4th one now......
Oh dear, think I am going to have to put music on and do some pyjama dancing or something active if I am going to watch the whole tournament.
 
Dancing my way to loosing that pound while watching the footy.

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Dancing my way to loosing that pound while watching the footy.

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Having done it for a week I can recommend the YouTube Zumba for losing weight. Even if it's only 15 minutes a day on top of your normal routine. It was for beginners so the steps were easy to pick up.


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Hi, this is a very difficult post for me to make because I don't like admitting that I need help. I am a 56 year old woman who is morbidly obese and wants to lose 105 pounds. I am type 2 and have been for 3 years. I have been low-carbing, fairly successfully for 3 years, but after a few knocks have stopped for a while and find it difficult to start again. The LCHF diet is very good for my BG's which were within the 'normal' range for most of those 3 years. However I didn't lose much weight on it. The only time I lost a significant amount was when I cut down to 600 calories a day for 7 weeks. My weight then was 16 stone 9 lbs. Today it is 17stones 11lbs. (the highest ever was 18stone 5lbs)

Last week, after a referral from my doctor, I joined Slimming World. I was weighed today and have lost a pound. This may not sound like much to you, but to me it's amazing. It's amazing because I am the sort of person who is 'all or nothing'. When I am feeling good about myself I can work really hard and achieve loads. When I feel down I let everything slide. I have felt down for a couple of months now, yet somehow I managed to start something and achieve something, whilst I wasn't feeling good. I have done many diets before, but I have never done so well whilst feeling depressed and I am very proud of myself for trying. This is a big first for me.

Another big first is asking for help.

I intend to get back to LCHF properly as soon as I can. My Slimming World consultant won't be happy about the high fat bit, but as long as I keep losing weight I don't suppose she will be too bothered. I will not be buying any of the low fat/low sugar products that they like so much. I will eat real food. I intend to keep going to SW so that I am not so tempted to give up in the bad times. This is also the reason I am starting this thread - so I won't be able to hide away during the bad times. I have an appointment to see my nurse for blood tests just before Easter, and another to see my GP to ask for Metformin after Easter.

I haven't been checking my BG's much recently. Two hours after breakfast this morning it was 6.7. I expect my fasting one to be around 8.5. I will check it tomorrow.

I like walking but haven't really done any all winter. I went out for a short walk this morning. I used to walk 2 miles a day but stopped because I developed a heart problem (atrial fibrillation) which made me very breathless. I had an operation (called ablation) in November 2012. They put you to sleep then pass a catheter through to your heart and 'burn' away the circuits inside which are causing the irregular heartbeat. The procedure usually lasts 1 1/2 - 2 hours. Mine lasted 6 hours. I was told to have complete bed rest for 2 weeks afterwards (it's normally a week). I had this idea that I would do that for 2 weeks, then spend a further 2 weeks getting back to normal. The reality was very different. I had the 2 weeks rest, but after that time muscles had already started to weaken and it was 5 months until I felt I had any energy at all. I had problems with my back after all that resting, I could hardly walk and was doubled over like an old lady (OK, an older lady) I went to a chiropractor. I had had my heart set on going to watch a football match again, in April. How could I, when I couldn't walk? I found that the best way to walk was to straighten up whilst pushing a shopping trolley. So I went to the match. My husband dropped me at a supermarket about 1/4 - 1/2 mile from the ground. I limbered up walking with a shopping trolley (with only a pack of Nurofen in it- boy did I get some funny looks!). Then we walked slowly to the ground. This was the start of me getting better.

I have a target for walking too. Two years ago my husband and son did a 50 mile walk in London. They did a 10 mile stretch in the dark and would like to go back one day to retrace their steps and see what they were missing. I would like to go with them, but I need to be able to walk 11 1/2 miles in one day. (to take into account the walking to and from the tube). Last Summer I tried to get in shape, but kept getting stuck at 7 miles. So I need to get back to being able to walk 7 miles in a day, and then push through whatever barrier is stopping me from reaching the 11 - 12 mile target. I think that barrier is something to do with diabetes, because my legs just stop and refuse to function after 7 miles.

So, that's me and that's the plan. Please help me stick to it.

Hi Zand you have gone through a lot i can tell it is not easy dealing with weight and more weight a person carries it can slow a person down keeping active, I think you did very well doing 7 miles walks that is fantastic, your body will only allow what it can cope with, you hear of people who are fit work out doing runs or other sport and some have underlying health problems they do not know of and can suddenly die from it, it is not all about people having a lot of weight some slim people are to at risk and I think health professionals need to remember that and look at how important it is for people to be body aware in how there health is, some times food may not be a cause some times it is, i think what you need is a boost a positive encouragement to go forward as you did with the 7 mile walk, though you need to slow down a bit and allow your body to do what it can and gradually increase if your not able to do the 7 mile yet if you are still doing it, you can do the walkathome.com this is pretty good people have done it lost weight, plus i have written something that may be useful for you to try out.Maybe this will help you get passed the obstacle for the 11 and 12 mile point,just keeping active for 2 hours a time each time you have eaten a meal.
 
Right, thanks for today folks. I must remember to test my fasting BG tomorrow morning.

Now I am going to watch the footie on TV
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it can be a nightmare for some people to lose weight and especially if hunger is always there or food intake is hard to control, did you know there is a way to lose weight it does work it just means making some adjustments getting used to them and giving things a chance and not to rush it, the big key is the amount you eat, eating smaller portions spaced out through out the day and during eating a meal, whether your breakfast lunch tea or dinner supper however you eat how many times in a day is to check your blood sugar first before you eat and make sure your levels are all right for you, then eat your food and have a drink though if your not used to exercise and may need a little extra only if your at risk of hypo's then eat a Little bit extra to enable you to exercise as some peoples energy can be used up faster than others so if you know already how your body reacts to exercise, then adjust your food intake according to exercise, do not increase food in take if your not exercising just eat what you normally have.Have a target goal a regular plan and stick with it, soon as you have eaten and is comfortable time your 2 hours for after eating your meal and in the 2 hours exercise you do not need a gym you do not need to do anything drastic just do a long brisk walk that lasts 30 minutes to an hour,or you can do in the 2 hours house work like vacum cleaning mopping or sweeping the floor,lifting and carrying washing,emptying bins, you need to be active, you can dance or do some aerobics moderate is good enough or medium strength work outs, bike riding, swimming, in those 2 hours your doing a activity always carry with you bottled water or if your at risk of a hypo you need either a hypo wallet with all emergency things in it glucose tablets etc or a sandwich or fruit that is only to be used for emergency not to be snacking on if your not hypo.
For those who suffer with hyper,if your blood glucose is up yet more up than it should be before excercising,check your ketones use the ketone test strip dip in urine see if there is ketones in your urine, if there is ketones do not excercise, as your sugers will go up higher so what you need to do before doing exercise is get your sugars lower, and you must not be feeling unwell, with headaches, heavy tiredness etc, any sign of a hyper no exercise till you are on the normal with sugars for you. always check with your doctor before any exercise it is safe or not safe for , you to do as all diabetics will be at different levels in health to each other,always have a back up plan when your exercising an emergency kit or food and drink with you if you go hypo.Plus mobile phone always let some one know where you will be incase anything should happen, prevent hypo's eat regular and healthy keep active and you can conquer,prevent hyper,keep in control of any food that triggers a hyper, to much sugar in the body will just make it go up, check your sugar with a meter to see what foods are causing the raised levels and also anything you drink is just as important, if you get a sign a hyper is on the way get in control of it immediately never let it control you, and always tell some one if you feel unwell hypo or hyper. You can get your figures back and look good and feel good, i exercise everyday, I had trouble at first losing weight, now the weight is coming off slowly yet i feel good for it..p.s some foods can make you want to urinate more and those that do are things like cucumber anything that contains more water, it is a good idea eating them only if your struggling to urinate it will clean you out to, if your at the toilet to much do not eat them unless it does not affect you if you have eaten them before.why not use the nexercise.com app it encourages you to keep active what ever fitness you do even walking housework choose on list then a timer will come up timing you how long you have done it for it tracks your activity plus you get rewards, i use it i find it helps me want to keep at it you never know it just may help you.good luck everyone p.s when you reach the 2 hours of keeping busy, check your blood glucose on meter see how your levels are with exercise is it going a better result, is it higher or lower, keep a record of all you did what you ate and drank which exercise you did and how long for with date and time, if your reacting to anything with exercise or food and drink you must adjust accordingly if there is something affecting you, you may need to reduce or increase a little food or drink or be not so crazy with exercise or if not doing much look at effort. if you repeat this process through out the day everyday you will achieve your goals, remember health and safety for you is important not to over do it, just do what your body will allow you to do what you can cope with, enjoy your chosen activity and you will find it will work for you.you do not need a diet that is advertised on TV, you need common sense eat fresh food veg fruit etc do not add salt sugar fat etc to it eat it as it is whether raw or cooked and you will get positive results.
 
I feel a little sad thought i was being helpful and i was on the other diabetes site forum and i posted up the tips for helping lose weight with healthy eating and exercise, and because i had the link in for nexercise app i got a warning not to post it up the link, so i suppose i will have to becareful here to in case i get told i am doing something wrong, all I was doing was trying to give hope, I know how it feels when there is no hope some times can get people down, encouragement and support helps people a lot.
 
Any advice I get from anyone on here is always welcome. Don't know the politics involved but I found your post interesting.

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Any advice I get from anyone on here is always welcome. Don't know the politics involved but I found your post interesting.

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thank jamrox,i think the more help everyone gets and gives can be very useful,you always get some one some where to make it difficult to give out the help you try to give and block it, and how are you doing jamrox how is your health
 
@spirits thanks for your posts. I found them interesting, and will keep them in mind for when I next 'get stuck'. Things seem to be going OK for me at the moment so for now I will be keeping on with what I have been doing so far, however I often look back at the advice given to me on this thread when I need help. So thank you for yours, I have no doubt I will refer back to it at a later stage.
 
Are you hungry on so little cals? I'm doing LCHF and losing weight slowly (about 1-2lbs a week) but don't count cals - just carbs. I'm wondering if I should start reducing cals too?

You're doing so well!

Keep it up

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Diagnosed prediabetic Easter 2014. Just left to get on with it, no guidance or help from GP. Every day I'm learning something new.
 
Are you hungry on so little cals? I'm doing LCHF and losing weight slowly (about 1-2lbs a week) but don't count cals - just carbs. I'm wondering if I should start reducing cals too?

You're doing so well!

Keep it up

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Diagnosed prediabetic Easter 2014. Just left to get on with it, no guidance or help from GP. Every day I'm learning something new.

I use myfitnesspal and put in all my data. It calculates the calories I need to consume. It also counts the carbs, fat and protein and warns you if you aren't consuming enough calories. I also have the mapmywalk app and it records the walk and syncs with myfitnesspal , recording calories burned. I've lost a significant amount of weight using these apps to help me.

If you're losing 1 to 2 pounds a week that's great! I would carry on with what you're doing. However, if your weight loss stalls, that may be the time to start counting the calories.

I hope everything goes well. :-)




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Are you hungry on so little cals? I'm doing LCHF and losing weight slowly (about 1-2lbs a week) but don't count cals - just carbs. I'm wondering if I should start reducing cals too?
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I think your weight loss is fine, it's best to lose it slowly. My average is only a bit more than that at 2.4lbs a week and my average will come down eventually. When I did just LCHF and ate what I wanted I only lost about a quarter of a pound a month, so I had to start thinking about calories and increasing exercise too. If I were you I would stick with what you are doing.

Yes I do get hungry sometimes. What I say next is personal to me and might sound crazy to most people. Hunger is a problem but not in the same way as for most people. I love feeling hungry, inside this seriously obese woman there's an anorexic trying to break free. I have always loved low cal diets, 800 cals is my favourite. This has done me no good at all, it has wrecked my metabolism and ultimately made me fat. I have struggled this week, since losing 7.5lbs last week. Why? Because I keep hearing myself thinking 'well, if I lost that much eating 1200 cals a day, how much more could I lose if I ate less.' In my case that would be disaster, but still there is something in me that says hungry is good and will make me thin. It's not true long term. I have worked so hard for years to get my metabolism going again, I am not going to mess it up again now. To keep a fire burning you need to give it enough fuel. Yours seems to be working fine, so please keep it that way. I have had to ban myself from listening to a certain Nickelback track this week because it has the line 'We'll all stay skinny 'cause we just won't eat' because that really appeals to me and tempts me to starve myself.
So, with calories I am forcing myself to eat at least 1200 calories a day. Usually when I complete my entries on myfitnesspal after my three meals, I have 200-400 calories left to eat (one day it was 600), so I am weighing the right amount of cheese for those calories and having that. Not perfect to have so much cheese but it's the only protein I really love on its own.

Now you won't have the next problem Debmcgee because you are younger than me. I am 56 and am well aware that my skin has lost some of it's elasticity. I accept that I will probably be left with loose skin around my tummy and I may need surgery, but I am doing my best to avoid this. At the moment the only place where my skin looks loose is my left arm, and that's easy enough to exercise more to help the muscle fill it out more. However when I start to notice this happening anywhere else, I intend to increase my calorie intake (yes, pure hell for me) so that I lose weight more slowly so that my skin has a better chance of shrinking back naturally.

Thanks for asking this question because I have just done the post I was saving for Tuesday, so I'm ahead of myself for once now! Please be patient with your weight loss it will be worth it in the end, honestly.
 
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