Hi Kat, I disagree with you on two points.
Firstly, when you are newly diagnosed, sometimes over the phone, you are in shock. The first thing you want to know is, right, how do I handle this disease and lower my high blood sugar? So in my opinion sharing what worked for me, you and all the others is vital as a first step.
Secondly, I don't think anyone is pushing anything - well possibly one member who I put on Ignore so wouldn't know much about what he is up to nowadays - but otherwise what we do is to share our experiences. Do you find that pushy?
And please don't go for the us and them line. There is no such thing. If you start on that line you will create a divide that really isn't there.