- Messages
- 65
- Type of diabetes
- Type 2
- Treatment type
- Diet only
My MIL is Greek - therefore somewhat of a feeder shall we say. the stereotype is true! If you don't leave her house unable to fasten your jeans she thinks she's failed. Bizarrely, she forces food on everyone except her own daughter (37yo) who is twig thin and MIL has openly admitted she controls what daughter eats as much as possible.
I've been type 2 for about 18 months and am pretty rubbish at losing weight, I'll be honest. my bmi is 32.
MIL piles my plate with huge quantities of everything - meat, potatoes, pasta, sauces, roast veg drowning in oil etc you name it. When I don't clear the plate (which i never do) she nags me not to waste it and really goes all out on the guilt trip. Telling her she put too much out falls on deaf ears, as does saying stop when she's dishing up. Serving myself doesn't work as she puts more on my plate if she thinks I've not put enough on.
She wont have diet drinks in her house and i wont drink full sugar ones (i never did even before diagnosis)
She's invited us for dinner tonight as other family are visiting and here is the issue. Hubby just rang to say she's getting fish and chips from the takeaway.
I admit I have a little bit here. She knows I'm trying to lose weight and she knows I'm diabetic. I have told hubby I don't want to go as i don't want to eat takeaway. (she'll pile my plate with food, pull her face if I don't eat it all) I went to a 6am spin class this morning. I do not want to waste my sweat and tears.
I honestly think she sees my diabetes as imaginary or I'm making a fuss about nothing.
I've been type 2 for about 18 months and am pretty rubbish at losing weight, I'll be honest. my bmi is 32.
MIL piles my plate with huge quantities of everything - meat, potatoes, pasta, sauces, roast veg drowning in oil etc you name it. When I don't clear the plate (which i never do) she nags me not to waste it and really goes all out on the guilt trip. Telling her she put too much out falls on deaf ears, as does saying stop when she's dishing up. Serving myself doesn't work as she puts more on my plate if she thinks I've not put enough on.
She wont have diet drinks in her house and i wont drink full sugar ones (i never did even before diagnosis)
She's invited us for dinner tonight as other family are visiting and here is the issue. Hubby just rang to say she's getting fish and chips from the takeaway.
I admit I have a little bit here. She knows I'm trying to lose weight and she knows I'm diabetic. I have told hubby I don't want to go as i don't want to eat takeaway. (she'll pile my plate with food, pull her face if I don't eat it all) I went to a 6am spin class this morning. I do not want to waste my sweat and tears.
I honestly think she sees my diabetes as imaginary or I'm making a fuss about nothing.