Diabetes, really, isn't all that different from any other thing in life that we wish was different. Your lover leaves, your ambitions are thwarted in work, you fail exams, you miss uni places, your favourite shirt tears, the weather sucks on your holiday, your car slides and crashes on a road that dozens of other drivers haven't had any problems on, you fall for a woman you can't have...
It's just life. You can't control the millions of random factors that lead up to those events, which are sometimes predicated by actions taken by people before you are even born. All you can do is try and make the best decisions to get the most out of life for you. Until medical science determines what causes the immune reaction that causes Type 1 Diabetes in the first place, that's all anyone can ever do.
You man up and deal, or you let any one of those challenges become large enough in your mind to destroy you. Given that I let one such event take over my life for a while, I'm not condescending - I'm speaking from experience.
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