i'm 16 and my dad is a 54 year old type 2 diabetic.
He had been diabetic for about 25 years and has never been very healthy and i am terrified the damage has allready been done and he is going to die young. He never checks his BS. His diet and level of exersize is getting worse and worse. Just tonight his dinner was a big fish and chips, cheesecake, ice cream and 2 or 3 cans of cider and this is a relitively average meal for him. He will often sit infrot of the tv and eat biscuit after biscuit after buscuit. It i catch him and tell him off he will shout at me and say "i'm hungry!" or "i'll have a hypo i NEED them!" I understand this but surely there is another way other than stuffing yourself with cake and biscuits on a regualr basis?!
My dad doesnt exersize and he needs to lose weight. Saying all this i know he is capable if he just changed his attitude got motivated and put some effort in. He isnt obese and could easily exersiz more often.
However he absolutely does not take his diabetes seriously and it make me so angry and definately effects our relationship. I feel like i'm nagging him but what else can i do?. I don't want to see him dying in 10 years time before i get married or have kids, it would break my heart.
If he doesnt want to do it for himself he could at least do it for his 12 year old son and me. We have recently lost my dear grandmother and it has been a real wake up call that he needs to sort himself out. I am sick of it all, sick of his hypos because he never checks his BS, sick of him not caring and me having to nag him. Right now he couldn't care less about his health and diabetes and i know he realises the effect its having on me. Hs father was diabetic and had a heart attack in the night at the age of 56 and i worry my dad may have one too if he doesnt do something!
Please help. Am i being unfair to him? Should i just leave him too it? Or if not what can i do ive tryed everything!?
He had been diabetic for about 25 years and has never been very healthy and i am terrified the damage has allready been done and he is going to die young. He never checks his BS. His diet and level of exersize is getting worse and worse. Just tonight his dinner was a big fish and chips, cheesecake, ice cream and 2 or 3 cans of cider and this is a relitively average meal for him. He will often sit infrot of the tv and eat biscuit after biscuit after buscuit. It i catch him and tell him off he will shout at me and say "i'm hungry!" or "i'll have a hypo i NEED them!" I understand this but surely there is another way other than stuffing yourself with cake and biscuits on a regualr basis?!
My dad doesnt exersize and he needs to lose weight. Saying all this i know he is capable if he just changed his attitude got motivated and put some effort in. He isnt obese and could easily exersiz more often.
However he absolutely does not take his diabetes seriously and it make me so angry and definately effects our relationship. I feel like i'm nagging him but what else can i do?. I don't want to see him dying in 10 years time before i get married or have kids, it would break my heart.
If he doesnt want to do it for himself he could at least do it for his 12 year old son and me. We have recently lost my dear grandmother and it has been a real wake up call that he needs to sort himself out. I am sick of it all, sick of his hypos because he never checks his BS, sick of him not caring and me having to nag him. Right now he couldn't care less about his health and diabetes and i know he realises the effect its having on me. Hs father was diabetic and had a heart attack in the night at the age of 56 and i worry my dad may have one too if he doesnt do something!
Please help. Am i being unfair to him? Should i just leave him too it? Or if not what can i do ive tryed everything!?