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- Type of diabetes
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- Insulin
Hi,
I was interested to know what kind of support everyone gets at home, from friends, family Husband/Wife etc?
Since I was approximately 13/14 years old I have felt really alone with my Diabetes.
I struggled as a teen & had very bad control. That lead to me distancing myself from my Diabetes nurses/Dr's & eventually even trying to distance myself from my actual Diabetes.
By the time I met my now Husband (at the age of 20) I had a really unhealthy relationship with my Diabetes & just pretty much tried to fit it in where I could, rather than allowing it to be a part of my life/me.
So now nearly 12 years after meeting my Husband, we have lived together for over 10 years & I have much more control over my diabetes & I have made so many changes in my life to allow myself to care for it. But I can't help but feel like I am really alone in making these changes & allowing the proper care for my health.
It can be silly things sometimes like my Husband never asking what my BG levels or HBA1C are, or when he prepares dinner he throws away the packaging so I have to dig it all out to try & get the Carb count etc.
All of my friends are very much "ooh should you be eating that with your Diabetes" kind of people & I have given up correcting their ignorant comments now!
Just wanted to know if anyone else has faced the same thing & if they were able to help their friends/family adjust to support them better?
Sam x
I was interested to know what kind of support everyone gets at home, from friends, family Husband/Wife etc?
Since I was approximately 13/14 years old I have felt really alone with my Diabetes.
I struggled as a teen & had very bad control. That lead to me distancing myself from my Diabetes nurses/Dr's & eventually even trying to distance myself from my actual Diabetes.
By the time I met my now Husband (at the age of 20) I had a really unhealthy relationship with my Diabetes & just pretty much tried to fit it in where I could, rather than allowing it to be a part of my life/me.
So now nearly 12 years after meeting my Husband, we have lived together for over 10 years & I have much more control over my diabetes & I have made so many changes in my life to allow myself to care for it. But I can't help but feel like I am really alone in making these changes & allowing the proper care for my health.
It can be silly things sometimes like my Husband never asking what my BG levels or HBA1C are, or when he prepares dinner he throws away the packaging so I have to dig it all out to try & get the Carb count etc.
All of my friends are very much "ooh should you be eating that with your Diabetes" kind of people & I have given up correcting their ignorant comments now!
Just wanted to know if anyone else has faced the same thing & if they were able to help their friends/family adjust to support them better?
Sam x