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- Type of diabetes
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- I do not have diabetes
Hi All,
Sorry this is a long one but I'm really after advice (or maybe just to vent), I don't understand how to bring sugar levels down without insulin and my stubborn father is refusing to acknowledge that it's constantly too high, or that he is even diabetic.
I'm no innocent to diabetes as my boyfriend has type 1 (and uses a pump). But about a year ago my dad was diagnosed with type 2.
Now my dad (who is just 59) has been through a lot of serious illnesses like thyroid cancer and a pulmonary embolism, and takes medication for them.
But since he was diagnosed with diabetes he's basically been in denial with it. He refuses to test his blood sugar, heck he refused to even ask the doctor for a blood test kit until recently because I bribed him with a guitar.
He's got 2 different tablets to take 4 times a day, one is a giant pill that has glucose in the name so I presume it's to bring his blood sugar up from what I can tell, and one that when I googled it, said it was an 'insulin enhancer'.
Now i've managed to get him to let me test his blood sugar twice within a week.
Last Thursday it was at 14.2, and this was in a morning without food.
And just now on Monday, i've tested it and it's 23.3.
I've asked him to at least take one of the insulin enhancer tablets but he's refusing because it says on the prescription box to only take with a meal. So he's sticking with that.
And basically now my problem is, I don't know what to do. I'm angry that he knows what I have been through with my boyfriend, all the seizures and DKA and 3am hospital trips. And yet he is doing nothing to help himself.
I know he is at risk of DKA at the moment, so I'm basically just waiting to hear him be sick and then I'll get him to the hospital.
I just don't want it to take till something serious happens for him to take diabetes seriously... Which is why I'm trying to step in and help out.
Sorry this is a long one but I'm really after advice (or maybe just to vent), I don't understand how to bring sugar levels down without insulin and my stubborn father is refusing to acknowledge that it's constantly too high, or that he is even diabetic.
I'm no innocent to diabetes as my boyfriend has type 1 (and uses a pump). But about a year ago my dad was diagnosed with type 2.
Now my dad (who is just 59) has been through a lot of serious illnesses like thyroid cancer and a pulmonary embolism, and takes medication for them.
But since he was diagnosed with diabetes he's basically been in denial with it. He refuses to test his blood sugar, heck he refused to even ask the doctor for a blood test kit until recently because I bribed him with a guitar.
He's got 2 different tablets to take 4 times a day, one is a giant pill that has glucose in the name so I presume it's to bring his blood sugar up from what I can tell, and one that when I googled it, said it was an 'insulin enhancer'.
Now i've managed to get him to let me test his blood sugar twice within a week.
Last Thursday it was at 14.2, and this was in a morning without food.
And just now on Monday, i've tested it and it's 23.3.
I've asked him to at least take one of the insulin enhancer tablets but he's refusing because it says on the prescription box to only take with a meal. So he's sticking with that.
And basically now my problem is, I don't know what to do. I'm angry that he knows what I have been through with my boyfriend, all the seizures and DKA and 3am hospital trips. And yet he is doing nothing to help himself.
I know he is at risk of DKA at the moment, so I'm basically just waiting to hear him be sick and then I'll get him to the hospital.
I just don't want it to take till something serious happens for him to take diabetes seriously... Which is why I'm trying to step in and help out.