Steve
This is terrible news for you and extremely upsetting. I've read through the whole thread again and a few thoughts spring to mind:
If I understand the situation, it is alleged that "you were abusive when you weren't having the hypos"? Firstly this surely has to be proven, and my question is also how on earth would anyone else know that you were having a hypo, given that you yourself were not aware of their onset, and would superficially be perfectly lucid and capable of functioning at extremely low levels of blood sugar that might even render another unconscious? I don't know any of the details myself and am not legally trained, but it seems to me that your solicitor isn't working terribly hard to be unable to immediately come up with a whole host of possible explanations?
Referring to the comment that you informed your wife about your hypos and how they could present as being aggressive, it's one thing for her to say she understood, and quite another to actually understand and be able to deal with the reality when faced with it head on.
It sounds like you will have an uphill battle on your hands, as you'll be fighting a great deal of ignorance and assumption (father-in-law), but I do hope this can be resolved without impacting on your kids, as they are the priority.
This is terrible news for you and extremely upsetting. I've read through the whole thread again and a few thoughts spring to mind:
If I understand the situation, it is alleged that "you were abusive when you weren't having the hypos"? Firstly this surely has to be proven, and my question is also how on earth would anyone else know that you were having a hypo, given that you yourself were not aware of their onset, and would superficially be perfectly lucid and capable of functioning at extremely low levels of blood sugar that might even render another unconscious? I don't know any of the details myself and am not legally trained, but it seems to me that your solicitor isn't working terribly hard to be unable to immediately come up with a whole host of possible explanations?
Referring to the comment that you informed your wife about your hypos and how they could present as being aggressive, it's one thing for her to say she understood, and quite another to actually understand and be able to deal with the reality when faced with it head on.
It sounds like you will have an uphill battle on your hands, as you'll be fighting a great deal of ignorance and assumption (father-in-law), but I do hope this can be resolved without impacting on your kids, as they are the priority.