Hello all
My Dad is 66 and was diagniosed as type 2 in his late 40's and has been type 1 for the last 18 years. Dad has recently moved in with me and my family into a purpose built annex attched to my house so we can help look after him following amputation of both his legs. I've always suspected Dad has poorly controlled his blood sugars hence the double leg amputations. Dad has always been very secretive about his health and since he's lived with us it's become apparent that he doesnt seem to check his blood sugar levels at all (he couldnt find the testing kit the other day and had forgotten how to use it!) and smokes 10+ ciggarettes an evening and eats fried breakfast meals at least twice a day.
I've tried every tact possible in helping him control his diet by talking to him, cooking his meals for him so he has a healthy balanced diet and have asked him not to smoke (for his own good and I have a 6 year old) The problem is he doesnt seem to care and said he wants to cook for himself as he likes fried food. I dont know if I'm worrying over nothing and should just stand back and say "well its his life" or because he's living with me and he's my Dad I feel a duty of care towards him. I dont want him to die a premature death living like this but really feel I dont know what I can do? Has anyone got any advice? Please be as honest and frank as you like.
Many thanks
Lene
My Dad is 66 and was diagniosed as type 2 in his late 40's and has been type 1 for the last 18 years. Dad has recently moved in with me and my family into a purpose built annex attched to my house so we can help look after him following amputation of both his legs. I've always suspected Dad has poorly controlled his blood sugars hence the double leg amputations. Dad has always been very secretive about his health and since he's lived with us it's become apparent that he doesnt seem to check his blood sugar levels at all (he couldnt find the testing kit the other day and had forgotten how to use it!) and smokes 10+ ciggarettes an evening and eats fried breakfast meals at least twice a day.
I've tried every tact possible in helping him control his diet by talking to him, cooking his meals for him so he has a healthy balanced diet and have asked him not to smoke (for his own good and I have a 6 year old) The problem is he doesnt seem to care and said he wants to cook for himself as he likes fried food. I dont know if I'm worrying over nothing and should just stand back and say "well its his life" or because he's living with me and he's my Dad I feel a duty of care towards him. I dont want him to die a premature death living like this but really feel I dont know what I can do? Has anyone got any advice? Please be as honest and frank as you like.
Many thanks
Lene