Speaking as an insider in the field of disability, people cope with their problems often because they creep up slowly so they don't notice how bad things have got :?
Also, denial is a way many people cope with problems, "it isn't so bad" or "it isn't like that every day" or "I'm managing" even when it takes more than twice as long to do things and the process wears them out. Also, some of the things they struggle with are just plain embarrasing. People are sometimes their own worst enemy. How many people delay going to the doctor even when they know they may have a serious health problem? This isn't the benefit system's fault.
However, there have to be some tests and screening to ensure that the people who need it get the benefits. Unfortunately, these forms are not easy to complete, even for someone with a degree level of education :| and if you don't use the right words you won't get the benefit :cry: :evil:
I always tell people to go to an expert to get the forms completed, and while I am very knoweldgable about disability, I am not a good person to fill in a form for someone. In my part of Darkest Buckinghamshire the experts are the CAB, Welfare Rights and Age Concern (for anyone over 55).
I know people who have disregarded my advice and filled in the form themselves or used the DWP form filling service. They have not got the benefit until they have used one of the specialist agencies to appeal.
I have a friend appealing something related to benefits and work at the moment, I said, go to one of the agencies above. He asked why he could not get the help from the team providing his long term care. I responded that they don't know how to fill in the forms properly or on what grounds to appeal - benefits are totally different to healthcare.
Also, specialist doctors often don't tell people they can apply for benefits. I have known many people with progressive conditions apply for DLA when I have started working with them and they have gone straight on to the high rate. When they ask why no one told them to apply before, I simply don't have an answer other than the doctor is looking at symptoms not your finances.
If you are struggling with the system get specialist help with benefits.
Also, a diagnosis does not entitle you to a benefit, it needs to have a significant impact on your everyday life.