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Does type 1 diabetes affect your social life? If so, how?


Wow, that is an exceptional answer, I absolutely love this community, this is a great answer and im gonna use this in my essay as part of a personal example, and use it to reference other answers. Thank you so much for your input, i love it ) <3
 

I see, thanks for your input, I appreciate every answer
 
As someone diagnosed at 13, the key benefit of insulin therapy for me is that I am now in my forties. Had I been diagnosed more than 100 years ago, I would not be here now.

Does it affect life? Yes, in many ways it must, otherwise you find yourself in places that are very uncomfortable, however, that doesn't mean that it has to rule life.

I've had plenty of social and daily life, including participating in sports to a high level, travelling the world, doing numerous jobs. My parents always encouraged me that I could do anything I wanted in spite of Diabetes, and I have. So has it impacted my social life? Well, not really. But then, I guess I may just have been lucky!
 
Same as you, tim2000, except that it was me who decided that it wouldn’t hold me back. When I was diagnosed, back in 1969, aged 20, I was given a leaflet. On the cover there was a picture of a group feeding the pigeons in Trafalgar Square with the caption ‘You too can lead a normal life’. My response was “Aw heck, not like that!” and I was probably a bit too reckless in the early days.
Diagnosis, after a long, horrible, eight month slide into DKA (I probably honeymooned pre-diagnosis) was wonderful, but it did seriously impact on my time at University, especially pre diagnosis.
Since then, carting everything around et al has become second nature and the only real impact occurs if I forget something. Driving home from work to get that insulin pen was a real self-inflicted nuisance!
 
Tim, if you were diagnosed at thirteen, how do you even know what impact it had on your social life?
 
ashwin24 said:
Wow, that is an exceptional answer, I absolutely love this community, this is a great answer and im gonna use this in my essay as part of a personal example, and use it to reference other answers. Thank you so much for your input, i love it ) <3
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You can use anything you want and i hope you get the grade you want as diabetes is a worldwide problem and education is the only way that people will learn. No two diabetics are the same and there are a lot of people who think that all type 1 diabetics are all the same
 
NoKindOfSusie said:
Tim, if you were diagnosed at thirteen, how do you even know what impact it had on your social life?
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That's the point. It hasn't affected my social life, doing all the things that teenagers and young adults do, whether that's drinking so much that you pass out (yes I've done that), eating the wrong foods, staying out all night, going on clubbing holidays, etc. It also hasn't stopped me participating in various sports & activities, which for most of us are also part of our social lives.

It could have, but it didn't. That's my point. My social life has been no different to my non-Type 1 peers.
 
NoKindOfSusie said:
Tim, if you were diagnosed at thirteen, how do you even know what impact it had on your social life?
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I love your answer to this, @tim2000s , and it's a great question, @NoKindOfSusie .

I have made massive life decisions which would have been different if I didn't have diabetes. I know this. I was 11.

I wish I hadn't let it hold me back. But I have. I did. And it does.

My life is great, don't get me wrong. But there are factors missing from it which I would like to have harnessed.

Love Snapsy xxx
 
My life is weird.

I am sitting in the lobby of a really great hotel in Phoenix Arizona. No I am not trying to be impressive, no I do not usually travel this much, it's for work and yes I am crazy for doing it with a backpack full of insulin pens. But if I start turning things down the phone will never ring again so here I am.

When we got here there was a big buffet dinner and I sat around for five minutes eating salad I didn't want, watching people stuff their faces with things I did want and couldn't (practically speaking) have. Then I went back to my room and did all the stabbing. Tomorrow I get to have my first interaction with the American airport security people who are notoriously horrible.

This should be an awesome experience both socially and work-wise and it is so fricken weird that it is and it isn't.

Does it affect your social life. GOD yes. How? It's complicated.
 
 
 

Gees your bloody cool
I love all your responses on different threads.
Tonight after a 50 hour week keeping bs in range after being loop-noot.,That overdose on insulin an nearly died twice not too mention the rest of the **** I did.....
I’m accepting of my diagnosis... so doing what I can to keep things greater than previous 30 to HIgh levels——- but I refuse not to enjoy my drinks when I choose to have them maybe it’s sea salt chips etc too lol but hay... our time here is short and I’m not 100% being destructive, but now again for a birthday or wedding or just bloody because I can .... I drink a lot have fun have maccas for the hangover and **** it...
Cause sometimes you have too
Oops I’m ranting SNAPSY...


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I was diagnosed in 1965 age 4. 1/2 now 56 years. My life has always included Diabetes early on injection we’re 1 a day then twice with boiled glass and metal syringes and huge bore needles leaving marks afterwards. I could not identify hypos for most of my childhood and teens, causing hypos n comas at school, primary school refused me said ‘ special school’ my parents refused n I went to same as my brothers sister. However my mum had to guarantee she would always be available to the school to deal with hypos etc. High school difficult 3 comas and one seizure school had no idea, ambulance called.So many positives now for diabetics much more understood, I never had sweets cakes etc as a child teenager no birthday cake Easter egg etc as then not allowed any!
Now disposable syringes microfine needles,Novo pens, blood tests (rather than urine with clinetest tablets ) Now pumps, and schools diabetics are more educated/ others much more aware.
Yes at times I have been fed up had to be careful when drinking alcohol with friends but decided to drive (so had less). Learnt the hard way re hypos later in day!
When I began work as adult lots of hypos as Work was physically tiring. . Change of animal insulin’s caused car crash warnings reduced lost licence but got it back. After 1 year - change to novo pen . Then got license back .
Married with 2 children pregnancy hard work still using multiple injections via Novopen had to keep glucose low -induced early but needed caesarean s children fine.
Now using pump. 1 1/2 years. Still have to be aware of diabetes, and have no fear of blood tests which 1 still do 5-8 times a day. My ‘eureka’ was when older began to realise I have to find a way to control it or it would control me and ruin my life. So far so good . Getting older less aware of hypos so more blood tests,but no serious problems .- apart from bowel damage/ associated to caesarean s / Diabetes. But managed with medication. I have now finished work and enjoy exercise several times a week. Learning to adjust Omnipod for this, now getting easier. The worst things for me over the years we’re lack of help at school when needed, getting silly, or grumpy when Hypo others didn’t know. Still sometimes get grumpy when low or high!
I hope to remain healthy enough to enjoy many more years.
 
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Heathero said:
I was diagnosed in 1965 age 41/2 now 56 years. My life has always included Diabetes early on injection we’re 1 a day then twice with boiled glass and metal syringes and huge bore needles leaving marks afterwards. I could not identify hypos
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Interesting as we have been living with type 1 for roughly the same amount of time - however, I didn't really start looking after myself until my kids were born - the first - 26 years ago. As far as I can tell it's never really affected my social life - athletics, touring with a Rock Band - wilderness canoeing adventures. My philosophy has always been - live life to the fullest for this could be your last day - It has served me well so far
 
Fletch I don't want to come off as a total noob and an idiot here but the point is you really can't tell. You're used to it. Try actually having a normal adult existence and then having that taken away. You get to a point where you can't really enjoy anything at all because it all has this enormous shadow cast over it.

Sure fine maybe I'm just crazy but it is difficult to hear people going "oh no it doesn't affect anything." It does. It has to. And that's not just me being inexperienced, that's objective fact.
 
It's a fact it'll effect you in certain ways, but you have to live life and think with a positive attitude.

Everybody deals in different ways, and that's absolutely fine. What I'm finding though, so many people are really negative in their thinking... If you are reading that 24/7, without the positives, you'll fall into that trap. I noticed it while in hospital, on a ward with elderly gentlemen, who couldn't feed themselves, wash or use the toilet.. My point is, the more I was around it, I think the worse I felt, the more negative I became.

Hopefully that makes some sense
 

Yes, it does affect things, but as time passes and you learn more about how insulin works in relation to types of food and drink, it affects them far less, to the point that it doesn't make an overwhelming difference.

I was dx'd at 21, thought my life was over, that I was disabled, would only be able to eat "special diabetic food".

Turned out, nah, sure, it takes a bit more planning ahead, bit of thinking about timing and dosage, but it becomes second nature after a while.

So, if I want to go out for a few beers, as I did last night, and will do again tonight, or a Chinese buffet, as I did last week, or the office departmental xmas lunch, which I will do next week, which generally starts about 1pm and finishes in a nightclub about 2am, then I can do those things and stay in range and be safe.

It might not seem it at the moment, but you will learn tips and tricks as time goes by which will let you do pretty much what you want. Instead of thinking, can't do that, after a while you'll see a situation and start thinking, ok, there's this food and that drink, so what do I need to do in terms of dose and timing to handle it. Used properly, insulin is a help, not a hinderance. Give it time.
 
D has no impact on my social life. Very few people know I'm D (no one at work) and outside my immediate family no one knows. Parties are the worst when someone comes up to you offering some sickly sweet treat that they are determined you will eat it.
 
NoKindOfSusie said:
Tomorrow I get to have my first interaction with the American airport security people who are notoriously horrible
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This is so not my experience. I have travelled to the US about 20 times since being diagnosed and found airport security polite at all times both when I had pens and, more recently, when I have a pump.
On average, I'd say my American airport security experience, is far better than the British equivalent.
 
Hi all. I have lived with T1 for 42 years now. Experienced a lot of fear and ignorance when I went back to school at age 5. Students refused to sit near me in fear of catching something?? Teachers were not much better in Primary or Secondary schools. If you needed to eat or inject then you would have to wait til the set break times. Even extended family had a confused understanding of what T1 was, back in the 70's. A comment at my uncle's funeral who had T1 and died from an infection after a farm accident, my Aunts and Uncles stated that I would be the same and not have a long life so don't be stupid saving for College etc. for him, I overheard all this and the argument with my parents that followed - I was age 6. This made me want to prove them wrong so taking shots myself and urine testing became (no immediate blood testers available then where I live) my way of taking control. Insulin has given me a life where if I was born in a different time - I would not have had. For this I am thankful, it had made me who I am now. I have tried to experience as much as I can - food and travel - as long as I have the money to do so, eat something new every month - travel somewhere new even if its only up the road 1 mile or 1000 miles, we cannot let it rule who you are or what you do. I have found ignorance is still there every day - I have tried 6 times over 20 years to get Life insurance but the minute you put Diabetic on the form and say that you are Insulin dependant, well they cannot run fast enough to get away from you. I have no problem injecting discreetly in public but have had instances where I have been confronted for being an Addict of some kind. Airport Security are the pitts - Insulin pens and tester are critical to us to be close to hand but I have been made to put them in stowed luggage or disposing of them before take off. See how the metal detector goes off with a pump - my friend had to refuse to remove it and ask for a supervisor before he could pass. I can understand how terrorism has changed peoples thoughts of what constitutes a weapon but it is embarassing when you always appear to be the one singled out. Planning for long haul flights can be hard - I find the air pressure in the aircraft does slow down the Insulin activity for me so you have to balance up predosing before take off with carb intake on the flight, taking shots on the flight and not stacking up the insulin in your system. You definitely do not want to have a hypo at the end of the flight or during the queuing for customs/border security. As a user of insulin - I find that having plans in place works for me - always travel with more insulin that what you need in different luggage - if one gets lost or taken - you always have a backup. Plan for heat - insulin does not like the sun, people often look at you strangely if you pull out a cold pack or flask on the beach. Employers - there are understanding ones and ones that go the other way too - all you can hope is that they or those who they love do not have to deal with T1 in the future. It is the same with driving - have a break plan worked out for long journeys is something everyone should do -not only diabetics. Sorry for my meandering thoughts but to finish - Yes Insulin is great for keeping us alive and no using Insulin does cause situations where you wish to God that you were someone or somewhere else.
Regards K
 
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