Fairygodmother
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- Type of diabetes
- Type 1
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- Insulin
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- Bigotry, reliance on unsupported 'facts', unkindness, unfairness.
Refuses to talk with anyone about this, and hides her diabetes from the world, being eighteen and not perfect, not now days.
We all know when we get older the fake tans, and the I'm so wonderful brigade don't matter a jot but at eighteen anything else but perfection is I think very difficault to except. were get there. Just hold on tight it's going to be bumpy for a while.
Thanks
Jim.
I really wish I could make it all better with a wave of a magic wand!!!!
Just a few thoughts . . .
I was diagnosed at 20 and it became a competition amongst my friends to be the one who was allowed to inject me - old style glass and steel syringes back then. They thought it was 'fab' - old-style slang too.
Do you know any of her friends? Would a quiet chat with the best of them have any effect. It really depends on what kind of people they are, and something to be avoided if they're the kind that'll make it worse by letting her know that her Dad's asked them to look out for her.
It sounds as though her high blood sugars may be making her more angry too. And I know from experience that any suggestions made when sugars are poor used to get a thunderflash response from me. I had to learn the hard way and could only do that when everyone backed off.
Moreover, my eldest beloved daughter, not diabetic, had the same responses In her teenage years when asked to do something.
Does your wife do all the shopping and cooking? Could you, or do you, do a week each? It might be a way to get low carb no sweets started. Without saying anything! Spiralised courgette spaghetti and that kind of thing. A period when the whole family live like a T1? Even if it's just as an interim before Addenbrooks. And then maybe ask your daughter for advice about the best meals to make?
I know it's not a super-solution, that can only come from your daughter, but until then good luck and best wishes!