... but I have to say that I have noticed an increased level of both irascibility and a willingness to get offended from some of the posters on here.
Nor me. I do not know what has gone on,but it is a shame that people are leaving. I have only just found this site : (I obviously just missed something but I haven't seen anything on here that would make someone want to leave.....
would need to be quite significant I would think...
Fortunately there are still lots and lots of folk here and willing to offer any support you need or receive support you are giving...Nor me. I do not know what has gone on,but it is a shame that people are leaving. I have only just found this site : (
Hi. Equally I haven't seen anything recently that was controversial so what have I missed? I've been on this forum for more years than I care to remember and have seen it's comings and goings and a few years back there were fairly frequent 'strong' arguments with people being banned and so on. It's much calmer these days but just as good in the sense that it embraces the needs of newbies thru oldies like me. I note that @Oldvatr has just posted again and I agree that an LC discussion has it's place in the T1 forum as LC can help both T1 and T2 perhaps in different ways. It has been mentioned many times on these forums in the past that being ID with LC can help reduce BS swings and also weight gain. The BS thing is basic science and the weight thing depends on your metabolism etc. I LC together with my ID but I don't go very LC as I don't need to but that's my choice. So, we need the many inputs this forum receives and to be polite in responding. So, good luck @Oldvatr and may be see you on that other forum.I obviously just missed something but I haven't seen anything on here that would make someone want to leave.....
would need to be quite significant I would think...
Much of the recent offence and misunderstanding has been due to advice not applicable to the particular diagnosis or situation of the OP.
One issue is that I consider each thread should be standalone, as most readers will be coming from Google. Therefore information about the person on other threads should not be used when writing responses.
Thank you for being so frank in this reply. Sometimes the info regarding meds for an OP is buried deep within a thread and even clicking on their avtar to view their profile may not give this info. It is a problem, but many here keep this info to themselves as a privacy issue which we need to respect.I am following this discussion with interest.
At times I have been guilty of exactly the behavior that is being criticized. To start with, it was because I was a newbie and did not yet know enough about T1 (I am T2) or the more advanced types of T2. More recently, the main reason was when I clicked on items in the "New Post" list on the forum home page. This zips you to a sub-forum and, if one is not careful, one can fail to notice that a thread has been started by a T1 rather than a T2 (for example).
I hope that I am now being more careful. In particular, I now pay close attention to the type of diabetes listed underneath a person's avatar, and to the meds (or insulin) that they are taking. If that information is missing, I tend to ask for it before saying too much.
I don't know wether the "New Posts" thing could be improved to make these out-of-context postings less likely. Ultimately it is the responsibility of each member to ascertain the individual facts before posting inappopriate advice blithely. Mea Culpa for the past, and a firm conviction to Do Better.
(None of the above will stop me from continuing to evangelize for the low-carb route when it makes sense to at least try it.)
Thank you for your wishes for my wife.Forums are odd places. We do not know the people we share our lives with, but get upset over a simple sentence that can often be read in a way that was not intended by the writer.
I try and not upset anyone. But I know that I have done that recently. It was not my intention but it happened anyway. However, I can choose to be upset by something said on a forum or I can choose to ignore it. Mostly, I choose to ignore it. I am quite capable of reading any advice given on here ( or any where else) and deciding to use it or not. If I feel strongly about a statement I will challenge it. But just feeling offended seems to me to be a bit pointless. This is a forum run by a for profit company and populated by ordinary people with diabetes. I knew that when I joined but maybe some sort of warning should be sent when joining that none of us can give individual medical advice.
We are all adults. If you dont like the advice given, dont use it.
If you disagree with any statement, say so and say why.
If someone is intentionally rude that is unacceptable and should be reported.
Nobody should feel that they are unwelcome or should leave just because they disagree with someone.
Obey the forum.rules.
On the issue of insulin users. I dont post on these threads at all, unless its just to give general advice ( eg, keep a diary) or give a virtual hug. I dont know much about insulin, and what I did know is 15 years out of date. So will let insulin users handle that and from I see the advice is pretty good.
To the op. Please dont be gone too long. I hope your wife is not too poorly and you will soon be able to come back. I always found your posts useful and thoughtful and I thank you for that.x
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