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Hello my partner is type two just diagnosed

Angelousbabe

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Hi all

I am a new member, my partner has just been diagnosed as having type two and I am trying to gather as much information as possible to help him deal with it.

Being diagnosed has given him a reason for why he has had many problems for a while, excessive tiredness, blurred vision and general feeling run down. It has added to his anxiety and stress as he feels he must give up so much. I feel things have escalated since he was diagnosed and his mood swings can be hard to deal with but he does not see that.

Any help or advice would be very welcome.
 
Welcome to the forum, there are plenty of experienced type 2's who will answer any concerns that you both may have, I suggest you read through the forum and then ask away.

Nigel
 
As levels become more within 'normal' limits, the excessive tiredness, blurred vision etc will improve.....

It is a huge change and acceptance is eventual, but not easy when first diagnosed with diabetes.

It is a lot to take on board all at once, take it all a bit at a time....huge changes immediately may be a little hard to accept to make things on a long term basis..as bodies are loathe to accept drastic change easily.....

You will both get immense support from here...a lot of encouragement and some good friends to help you through...for years to come!!!
 
Hi Angelousbabe -

I have also just been diagnosed with type 2 and was also suffering from excessive tiredness, mood swings and feeling really low. At least I now know what's wrong with me and that I can (hopefully) improve things. I've been struggling for ages to try a lose weight, without any success, now I know why it's been so difficult. It's answered a lot of questions for me so at the moment I feel that I have a chance to get my life back. Maybe I'm being unrealistic and don't know what's in front of me but I'm trying to look at it positively and not as a death sentence.

My grandaughter is Type 1 and was diagnosed when she was 2 years of age (she's 4 now) so compared to her and what she has to go through, I feel very lucky.

Maria
 
Maria

It is just as much to get used to-no matter what age of diagnosis.....your grandaughter will never really know anything different....you and your body do and it has had longer to get used to your previous eating habits, exercise etc......

You will manage to lose weight, to get levels down etc, but allow your body to adjust....

Smaller portions etc and still enjoying foods is important...exercise is very important too...but don't rush in to joining a gym.....find something that you enjoy doing on a longterm basis...mine's walking my dogs...also if put on to medicines-then your body also has to accept or reject medicines that you are using...

There is a huge change to accept, but you will
 
Hello Angelous
I feel for both of you. I remember the day I was diagnosed as if it was yesterday.
But fear not, the more you learn and understand this disease the less fear you will have.
Have you got a meter and test strips? Unfortunately type II dont qualify for test strip prescription so would teally advise you buy your own. With testing you will learn how the different foods affect your blood sugar.
There are quite a gew dietary approaches such as low carb or lowish carbs or low GI that work for different people. So keep an open mind on that issue.I think there is a kind of advice sheet around here somewhere I think its by daisy1 Lets hope she comes along soon.
Do not sorry too much you can still lead healthy active lives and get good control over diabetes avoiding complications.
I once was petrified and thought its the beginning of the end, but soon changed my mind.
Kind regards
MM
 
Hi Angel and welcome to the forum :) I'm pleased to see you have had some replies already to your post. As mentioned earlier in this thread, here is the advice our friends Sue and Ken, former monitors, have written for new members to the forum - I hope some of it will be helpful to you and your partner.

Here is the advice that Ken and I, as Forum Monitors, usually give to newly diagnosed Diabetics. We hope that these few ideas gained through experience help you to gain control and give you some understanding of Diabetes. This forum doesn't always follow the recommended dietary advice, you have to work out what works for you as we are all different.

It's not just 'sugars' you need to avoid, diabetes is an inability to process glucose properly. Carbohydrate converts, in the body, to glucose. So it makes sense to reduce the amount of carbohydrate that you eat which includes sugars.

For more information on CARBOHYDRATE see here:

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=20306

This is NOT a low carb diet suggestion, just a reduction in your intake of carbohydrate. You have to decide yourself how much of a reduction will keep your blood glucose levels in control.

The main carbs to avoid OR reduce are the complex or starchy carbohydrates such as bread, potatoes, pasta, rice, starchy root veg and also any flour based products. The starchy carbs all convert 100% to glucose in the body and raise the blood sugar levels significantly.

If you are on Insulin you may find that reducing the carb intake also means that you can reduce your dose of insulin. This can help you to keep weight gain down as Insulin tends to make you put on weight and eventually cause insulin resistance. This should be done slowly so as not to cause hypos.

The way to find out how different foods affect you is to do regular daily testing and keep a food diary for a couple of weeks. If you test just before eating, then two hours after eating, you will see the effect of certain foods on your blood glucose levels. Some foods, which are slow acting carbohydrates, are absorbed more slowly so you may need to test three or even four hours later to see the effect that these have on your blood glucose levels.

Buy yourself a carb counter book (you can get these on-line) and you will be able to work out how much carbs you are eating, when you test, the reading two hours after should be roughly the same as the before eating reading, if it is then that meal was fine, if it isn’t then you need to check what you have eaten and think about reducing the portion size of carbs.

When you are buying products check the total carbohydrate content, this includes the sugar content. Do not just go by the amount of sugar on the packaging as this is misleading to a diabetic.


As for a tester, try asking the nurse/doctor and explain that you want to be proactive in managing your own diabetes and therefore need to test so that you can see just how foods affect your blood sugar levels. Hopefully this will work ! Sometimes they are not keen to give Type 2’s the strips on prescription, (in the UK) but you can but try!!

For TIPS FOR STRIPS see here:

viewtopic.php?f=20&t=19002#p173253

If you are an Insulin user in theory you should have no problem getting test strips.

The latest 2011 NICE guidelines for Bg levels are as follows:
Fasting (waking and before meals).......between 4 - 7 mmol/l...(Type 1 & 2)
2 hrs after meals........................no more than 8.5 mmol/l.....( Type 2)

2hrs after meals......................... no more than 9 mmol/l ......(Type 1)

If you are able to keep the post meal numbers lower, so much the better.

It also helps if you can do at least 30 minutes moderate exercise a day, it can be split into 10 min sessions to start with. It doesn't have to be strenuous.

The above is just general advice and it is recommended that you discuss with your HCP before making any changes. You can also ask questions on the forum on anything that is not clear.

Finally a few QUESTIONS TO ASK AT DIABETES CLINIC.

viewtopic.php?f=20&t=17091



Sue/Ken.
 
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