SugarJunkie
Member
- Messages
- 24
- Type of diabetes
- Type 2
- Treatment type
- Tablets (oral)
I did so well with my diabetes until my mental health failed after long term stress, miscarriage & the death of my dad. I have a diagnosis of borderline personality disorder & have had support with that in the form of dialectical behavioural therapy, which is buddhist based. However during that they moved my form of self harm from cutting to not taking my insulin. I was so honest with them but they insisted it wasn't life threatening & wont help me deal with it. I don't want you to think I am a weirdo I just struggle with how much I hate myself. Your post was so nice & inspiring, but being kind to myself is what I find the hardest but I know i have to fight through somehow@linnyb my sister gets pretty good support from her mental health team but I know things vary a lot by location. She has bi-polar diagnosis (and also cancer) so I know things can get pretty tough. One thing I have definitely noticed consistently, and not just with my sister, is that when her physical health is good her mental health is also radically improved.
The idea that our minds are separate from our bodies is quite old fashioned now (it was a philosopher Rene Descartes who proposed this way back in the seventeenth century - now how old fashioned is that!) but much more modern and current research points to a connection, even a 'oneness', between your mind and your body. So what that means is that although you may not feel inclined - and the initial steps may feel hard - they're the hardest of all and it gets easier and easier - if, you can imagine that...
The physical benefits aren't just physical they're mental too, so each little step improves body and mind and the more you do the easier it gets. And quite quickly you're enjoying yourself too. So because we all deserve to have fun - you have to keep going, it would be rude not to...
lol, you are right, who is normal!! My gp has been off ill for 8 months, but I have made an appt with another doctor for 2nd march & am going to ask for a referral out of area to a diabetic team who I hope will then refer me to there mental health team. I am trying to find way around & that is forcing me to find ways. Have a wonderful family & friends. My husband is currently administering insulin to ensure I get some ( humulin Isophane) , but I also know that before my "normality issues" lol, I was on 4 injections a day (humulin x1/actrapid x3). Your way of looking at things differently is refreshing, thank youOK, well the rule of thumb for any therapeutic or healthcare practitioner is 'Do no harm' and technically they could argue they haven't but robbing Peter to pay Paul doesn't put you any further forward. The rule of thumb on a forum is also 'Do no harm' so I respect this as an issue that needs proper professional face to face attention. Ask your doctor about alternative referrals if your existing healthcare team wont help. There are always avenues to explore.
Of course you're a weirdo - me too and everyone else tooNormality is just a myth - we're all 'weird' in our own ways. And you should reserve hate for someone much more deserving - such wasted effort otherwise
Speaking of wasted effort - rather than fighting through it have you thought about what will happen instead when you spot the way round it, or over it or maybe even the one under it... maybe being kind to yourself doesn't have to be such a struggle
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