I am Mum to a diabetic 6 year old, who was diagnosed when she was 5.
For what it's worth, I agree totally with most of what you are all saying - the child needs to see their parent dealing with the issue in a way that won't totally freak the out and condemn them to a life of hardship where everything is unfair... all because of their diabetes.
I believe that how you set the stage in the very early days determines the way the child will view the condition and their ability to deal with it and just make it a part of their every day lives.
I actually think that as a result of her diagnosis, my daughter has done more, tried more new things and seen new places as I am so determined that she will lead a full and 'normal' life despite being diabetic.
I also know that her diet is much more healthy & considered as it perhaps would have been!
But would I swap places with her so take it away from her if I could? In a heartbeat.
Now... At the risk of offending anyone (as that certainly isn't why I have posted this) please try and think about how it feels for a parent to see the most precious, cherished thing in their lives so poorly and left facing this for ever.
All we ever (should!) want as parents is for our children to be healthy & happy. We're not all over bearing, neurotic Mums but please try to think about how AWFUL it is for everyone when first diagnosed.
I have never said I know how it feels to be diabetic - because I most certainly don't. And I would never try to pretend that I do. But please don't try and pretend you can imagine how it feels to be mum to a newly diagnosed littlie, unless you have been there.
x
P.S. I haven't even watched the video as I imagine it would make me too cross!
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