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@Geminigirl - So much of your post resonated with me. There is light at the end of the tunnel, I promise. Through LCHF I have lost a fair bit of weight and no longer binge eat. I suffer from depression and anxiety and, even though I'm having a bit of a rough time at the moment, have not felt the need to comfort eat. I know two other Type 2s who, after years of medication, are reducing their meds with this way of eating.

I sympathise re your experiences with the nurse too. It sounds like your doctor has a lot more sense and he/she is likely to be supportive if you decided to try out LCHF.

I wish you well and the very best of luck, whatever you decide to do.
 

you dont have to do excactly as they tell you, you just eat what you think is sensible of what they suggest and less like you think is good for you...
I am myself on 1000 calories the days I do not excercise...in the begining I lost about 1 kg a week...by that ... lower carb ... not too high proteins ...
 
Hi, I went in to the drop in today and saw the dietician and discussed things with her.
In the end she saw my concerns and suggested I reduce the carbs to a level I am happy with but to keep the proteins, fats, dairy and fruit/veg groups the same. I was much happier after that and was glad I went. That will actually reduce the cals to about 1,500 and I am also happier with that too. So I am feeling brighter.
On the meds front she assured me that if the Diabetic nurse and/ or GP don't seem to be able to think of any other course of action than Insulin, she is able to directly refer me to the clinic who can explore other options.
 
Yes, thank you, as you will see form my other rely I have spoken to them again and am feeling much more positive. Congrats on ur amazing results.
 
Hi, I haven't posted before on your troubles, I went through the same process as you when I was misdiagnosed with T2.
Every so called expert diet was tried and made me gain weight.
Until the only one that worked was low carb.
My point is if you eat low carb to a plan that satiates and satisfies you. Then if it reduces your blood glucose levels and you lose weight, but you do have to find your own way of doing it! Eat to your meter! Counting carbs or calories is an unnecessary task, knowing you are eating less carbs and doing a little more exercise will work!

Your dsn, is rubbish!
She is just reading from the wrong script that is given to newbies!
I would totally ignore her, at least your dietician is a bit more with it!
Best wishes.

BTW, I'm down to under 12 stone now! I was nearly eighteen stone three years ago!
All thanks to this forum and very low carbing!
 
I am type 2,I was on metformin. But it didn't agree with me so went on low sugar low carb diet,keep finding things I didn't know had high carbs like carrots.Anyway I am now PRE diabetic! Still have to watch my diet but am so relieved,you can do it too.Mary
 
Hi Geminigirl. I know it is hard to get into a difficult routine like this. You don't need people brow beating you either. I have been on insulin now for 11 years, and strangely enough it hasn't effected my weight. I keep as fit as I can, keeping myself active. With diabetes it is essential to keep good circulation, especially in the feet. Don't let it get to you.
 
All the best. Lots of amazing advice here and as a newbie I have no idea how my own diabetes diet is going so would not dream of offering advice but I do want to say you need to do what works for you. I am the same age as you and went through a terrible time. That period of my life can be summarised as not seeing the wood for the trees. I could go on about the pressures that were being placed on me resulting in me not knowing which way to turn. You know the feeling all to well.

Then a friend pointed out that I would be no use at all to my parents if I were dead so I ought to concentrate on looking after me first. Once I stopped being dutiful (and in a couple of instances polite) I won my life back. I promise you it is worth it. Try it.

As far as diet is concerned the only time I lost weight before was when I had soup for breakfast. I felt great. Then husband became ill and was home so I conformed to the stereotypical breakfast. Bad mistake.

When I got my diabetes my diabetic nurse told me to go on the Newcastle diet. I am 5ft 3 and 14 stone. When I found out what that was, I endeavoured to find a more suitable diet for me. Tbh I ended up on low carb because it was the only coherent one I found on the internet. Immediately I stopped eating the carbs I felt great.

When I did the DESMOND course they were at pains to point out I can eat what I want so long as I am fully aware of what I am putting in my mouth and adjusted my portions accordingly. They are absolutely right but the moment I took carbs I wanted bigger portions and snacks. A late evening plate of crackers, cheese with glass of port made me feel so ill I knew that is not what I want my life to be.

I have dropped the carbs again. Now I tell the family what I am going to eat and most of the time they join me. If they want something different that will be fine.

Good luck with your journey but always remember you are the only one that can make yourself feel great.
 
You're in a tough spot, Geminigirl, but I think you've gotten some great advice from people really trying to help. To be brief and non-repetitious, I will add only this: When your dietitian says something you don't agree with, tell her 'NO, I won't do that.' Doctors, nurses, and dietitians are only people - other people at that. They don't live with your disease day in, day out. If you know things about how you spike and with what foods, start your conversation there. A dietitian that gives you a diet that you won't eat is wasting your time and theirs.
That being said, you have so many issues to keep track of, I'm so proud of the effort you are putting forth to keep things together. Remind your health-care providers how difficult it is for you to work through all this stuff alone - and that rude behavior or contrary suggestions that aren't designed to help you raise your blood sugar and stress you out. (BTW, that rude nurse? Tell her to quit it. You're their customer, not the other way round!)
Lastly, keep coming back here. We care and want the best for you.
 
Hello Geminigirl - you will get lots of good advice on the forum - read it all.
Your GP seems to be the one giving you good advice - go with him/her.
Ask your GP about a new type of Metformin - it does not have the nasty side effects of the old Metformin.

I could not take the old Metformin because of headaches and feeling sick - but this new one? Yes, yes, yes.

Also your Statins may be making you feel hungry - I stopped taking my Statins a year ago (but don't tell my GP or DB) - I don't feel as hungry now and my memory is much better and my sex life has revived. I had been on Statins for about 15 years.

All the best.

Kyambala.
 
First off, I am terribly sorry that you lost your son. I don't know if you speak of a one year anniversary or more, but either way I know this has a terrible impact on ones health. As you say, he would want you to look after yourself, so do it for him, too.
Second, thank goodness for the drop-in clinic! You have your meter and strips, and a good understanding of carb metabolism, there is nothing to stop you regaining control.
We are right here to support you.
 
Hi Gemini Girl
I have read all the comments, all the empathy and the advice given.....
It`s all very encouraging that people are so understanding and gentle in their comments..
The truth is .
If you don`t get it together and go absolutely low carb, your condition will worsen.
I was diagnosed three and a half years ago, went low carb immediately and have had normal HbA1c results since...
Your life is in your hands, nobody else will have the same interest in your life as you have.

Sorry to be so blunt but the only way to go is low carb.
Don`t mess about. be positive.
Get a Dr. Atkins diet book for about £8.00 it covers diabetes a lot and it will really make you see how important it is to go low carb.
Spend the £8.00 it will be really worth it, it will get your life back on track, you will lose weight, feel fitter and not regret the life change.

Good luck Gemini Girl
Toncra1
 
Thankyou.
 
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hank you, it's amazing yr DSN supports low carb, very forward thinking of her.
I have been following the plan I was given except I have greatly cut the suggested carbs. I am worried about cutting them out totally due to the Glimperimide.
My numbers are not reacting yet though, the only thing is, I have been eating a lot more veg and its upset my IBS!!! Grrrr.
 
Thank you so much. Am trying to work on my mood but had a melt down yesterday, I know I have to get a grip.
I used to be such a strong person but feel I have lost my way. It is affecting my relationship with my husband and daughter, it's horrible. Anyway, the support on here is amazing and at least we all know what a struggle this can be.
 
Hi geminigirl,
What has helped me manage my blood glucose level without insulin or meds since 16 months is this book :
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Dr-Bernsteins-Diabetes-Solution-Achieving/dp/0316182699
Low carb high fat is a learning process. Once you have understood the logic of it and decided that you want to control your diabetes and be proactive, your doctor will probably follow your progression with relief and admiration.
And your son will watch over you one way or another.
Just go easy on yourself and move one step at a time with the support of this friendly and kind community.
Best wishes for a successful life, geminigirl.
Frederic
 
dear Gemingirl
i have found forum, incredibly informative and supportive , i have type 2 diabetes and went on the newcastle diet and it helped me with weight loss i had to stop after five weeks as i was hospitalized for a non diabetic health problem.
hope things get more bearable for you
regards
James2
 
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