Hi,
I never get the breads, or rice. I might have one poppadom, but I'm wary of the chutneys. Even the yogurt one is usually sweetened. Or desert.
Starters... The kebab style things are fine. And bhajis should be too, so long as they're made with gram flour, not wheat flour. But even then probably only 15-20%.
Mains. I've made some serious mistakes with these. There was the time I thought that 'with cream' would be a good idea. Didn't know that actually meant 'with cream and half a ton of sugar'. Likewise, with any fruit (coconut and pineapple are the usual suspects!). Not sure why they sweeten them so much. A lot of the puréed sludgier sauces seem to be thickened up with potato, parsnip or even sweet potato. Hard to identify, but very spike making!
My best meal ever was the last one. At 2 hours, my BG was only up a smidge:
Starter - Buna prawn on puree (it's a sort of wheat crepe filled with prawns, peppers and tomato. Because of the crepe/puree so I skipped the poppadom).
Main - chicken shashlik (cubed chicken with veg and onion, served on hot plate) with brinjal bhaji (aubergine) and saag paneer (spinach with cheese). No bread or rice.
I like butter chicken too, or tandoori.
Basically the drier the sauce the less it will be sweetened.
A lot of the veg side dishes are bulked up with potato.
I hope you have a great time!