I am relatively new to my pump. I was on MDI for donkey's years, then got my pump last December. My blood sugars were swinging massively for the first few months. After about two months I bought both Think Like A Pancreas and Pumping Insulin, and sat down and read them both. In fact there is so much info in PI, it will take a couple of months to absorb it all and put it into practice.
I did my night time basal tests properly (I think you have done that) but was still getting swings during the day, and when that's happening, ironically you cannot test carb ratios and correction ratios properly.
At that point, I learned two important things: first (you know this), don't make more than one change in your settings at once.
Second, and this was the lifesaver for me, do NOT have a RANGE as your blood sugar target. I previously had (70mg/dl - 100 mg/dl) set as my target. But after reading PI, I changed it to just 100mg/dl on my pump (but kept that target range on my BS meter which is not connected.) Dramatic reduction in swings, more on-target bloods, fewer hypos and reactive hypers.
Could that be it?
After I got that sorted I started on managing bolus and basal rates to correspond with levels of physical activity. Obviously, that is always going to be less predictable but it is now 80% manageable for me. I no longer have to sit in Buddha-like contemplation all day to avoid hypos. Those two books are useful for adjustments to activity level too. But I also bought Diabetic Athlete's Handbook.
I bought all the books because I read that something like 70% of people who start on a pump give up again within a year, and that the reason they give up is because they don't get enough training to use them and they don't learn to use all the features which give them an advantage over MDI. And I realized that basically no doctor or DN is ever going to have enough time to impart as much information to you as you can get by reading. And the Internet is a bit too random and disorganized as a source of info.
I am pretty happy with mine now. My HbA1c has gone from 9 to about 6.2 since I got my pump.
At the moment I am working on the effects and after-effects of anaerobic exercise on my dosing and blood sugars. I'm pretty happy! You can do it.