have not been able to follow up as got busy with work. So looks like best course of action is to cook food as a non diabetic would do and then choose what to eat from that,
This way she wont miss out and I can have what i want.
The only downside is the slippery slope of seeing carbs and then caving in( As happened to me recently on a trip to India)
But onward and upwards , so will be looking to do strict keto again.
or you could cook your yummy keto stuff and then add in one extra carb portion to her plate.
you will be less tempted to poach her carbs of there is only enough for her
