Hi
@barriebanana ,
First off. Would you prefer me to move your enqirory to a more appropriate section of the forum?
It maybe more productive regarding advice with your issue. (It's kind of hidden down here in general chat section.)
Secondly? I applaud you sir for broaching the subject..
OK what I do know, though I still "get".. Is my GP once asked (during a check up.) does "it" still get.. (Or more precisely, "how are thing performing down there. Cough.") Of course I replied it still does. "Only" he interjected, "we can give you stuff to help if it don't.."
I'm serious now. Go see your doctor..
In the interim....?
I also was brought up in a city with an established company in the South West that does a tasteful line in mail order "marital aids"..
You may have seen the adverts on mainstream UK TV? (Normaly involves a couple chatting about experimenting with "stuff".) Forum rules prevent me from promotion with direct links to advertising..
I wish you & yer wife well!