Hi and welcome,
Yes, it can be a shock, but panic not, we are all here to help you.
The most popular meters for self funding T2's are the Codefree and the Tee2 because the strips are much cheaper than other meters, and you need a lot of strips. You can't buy them in pharmacies.
Try here for the Codefree meter
http://homehealth-uk.com/product-category/blood-glucose/blood-glucose-monitor/
and here for the extra strips
http://homehealth-uk.com/all-products/sd-codefree-test-strips-to-be-used-only-with-the-sd-monitor/
There are discount codes if you buy in bulk.
5 packs 264086
10 packs 975833
The Tee2 is here and the meter is free.
http://spirit-healthcare.co.uk/product/tee2-blood-glucose-meter/
Getting a meter is the very best thing you can do as a first step. Next step is when you see the nurse - ask her for a print out of your blood test results. It is important to have these in black and white, and not just the glucose ones but also all the others you may have had, especially cholesterol, lipids, liver and kidney functions. We can help you understand them if necessary.
Have a good read round and ask a lot of questions.