Mongoose,
I feel llike i only just got over the sudden death of my husband at the end of last year (he died 6 yrs ago) just started to feel balanced, is that, what i mean by normal? Blalanced...........mmmm i think it may be. I had been coping with my father and all his medical problems in a hands off type of sense, taking him to hospital appointment and the like, for the first time in our whole relationship we became close, this last 3 years has been a gift, but he passed 2 weeks before i got this news the funeral was the day before i got this news; Now; im a trooper and all that, but im pretty warn out with Changes and not very subtle ones at that! :crazy: I think as Gracek thinks and some others, that much of this is down to shock, too many shocks over the years.
I do appreciate though, that there is no need to panic, although i am, and it has helped so much to hear what everyone has to say.
Gappy, you sound like a wirlwind, on an adventure, you must write that book, im sure we would ll like to read it.
Grace, much of what you have written is an echo of my own experiences, and i thought that was my saying "The only thing you can rely on, is that nothing will ever stay the same" well talk about self fulfilling prophecy!
I will keep asking and no doubt will duplicate a few worries, as you all ay though it takes a while for all this to sink in, plus i have an awful memory
I feel llike i only just got over the sudden death of my husband at the end of last year (he died 6 yrs ago) just started to feel balanced, is that, what i mean by normal? Blalanced...........mmmm i think it may be. I had been coping with my father and all his medical problems in a hands off type of sense, taking him to hospital appointment and the like, for the first time in our whole relationship we became close, this last 3 years has been a gift, but he passed 2 weeks before i got this news the funeral was the day before i got this news; Now; im a trooper and all that, but im pretty warn out with Changes and not very subtle ones at that! :crazy: I think as Gracek thinks and some others, that much of this is down to shock, too many shocks over the years.
I do appreciate though, that there is no need to panic, although i am, and it has helped so much to hear what everyone has to say.
Gappy, you sound like a wirlwind, on an adventure, you must write that book, im sure we would ll like to read it.
Grace, much of what you have written is an echo of my own experiences, and i thought that was my saying "The only thing you can rely on, is that nothing will ever stay the same" well talk about self fulfilling prophecy!
I will keep asking and no doubt will duplicate a few worries, as you all ay though it takes a while for all this to sink in, plus i have an awful memory
