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Partner newly diagnosed

Samantha1979

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Hello, my partner had glucose ++++ and blood sugar at 31.4 by finger prick last night.

I thought he had a urine infection so used a dipstick at home and when i saw the glucose got him to do the finger prick. This was at about 7pm.

We went to the urgent care centre and were seen at 10.30pm. Finger prick there showed 14.1 and still glucose in urine. They sent us home saying to keep an eye on blood sugar and urine glucose. If we see ketones or get a reading over 25 to go back, but as far as they are concerned it's a new diagnosis of diabetes and to see the Gp on Monday.

My partner is very depressed about this. We are not sure what he can eat, what he should avoid etc. His mum died from complications of diabetes and his brother has it too but is poorly controlled. I think he just wants to ignore it whereas i want to do lots of research etc.

Im not sure how best to handle things at the moment. Any advice would be great. Fingerprick this morning showed 21.6
 
Welcome to the forum @Samantha1979. If your partner is diagnosed as Type 2 diabetic he obviously needs to avoid sugary foods and drinks, but he also needs to avoid or limit starchy carbohydrates like bread, potatoes, pasta and rice. Starchy carbs turn to sugar quickly in our bodies so aren't good for Type 2 diabetics.

Meat, fish, vegetables (from above ground), and healthy fats like oily fish, nuts, dairy products, and olive oil are good.
A lot of the T2s on here have found that adopting a Low Carbohydrate High Fat (lchf) approach to eating has reduced our blood glucose levels. Have a read round the threads to see how this works and ask any questions you want.
 
Your partner should keep the carbs way down currently and balance with enough proteins and fats. If your partner is not overweight and or has lost weight unexpectedly recently then there is a possibility he could be a late onset T1 instead of T2 so bear this in mind when you see the GP as GPs can just assume T2 without thinking further. There are tests for T1 which can help the right diagnosis.
 
Hello and welcome to the forum. Tagging @daisy1 for the fabulous info pack offered to all newcomers. It has all the basic info you need but while you wait why not have a wander around the forum and ask as many questions as you like.
 
If your partner is not overweight and or has lost weight unexpectedly recently then there is a possibility he could be a late onset T1
If overweight this is still a possibility.

I agree with the rest, keep testing, for ketones as well, stay away from carbs for now and go to GP as soon as possible.
Good luck!
 
Hello and welcome,

Yes, the others are right. It isn't just sugar, biscuits, cakes and sugary drinks that raise levels, it is carbohydrate. His levels are very high, so the sooner he reduces his carbs the better things will be for both of you.
Bread, potatoes, rice, pasta, pastry, batter, breakfast cereals and most fruit are the worst culprits. (including wholemeal varieties).

Have a good read round and ask as many questions as you like. The dietdoctor site is an excellent place to start.
https://www.dietdoctor.com/low-carb/60-seconds
 
@Samantha1979
Hello Samantha and welcome to the Forum :) Here is the Basic Information we give to new members and I hope you will both find it useful.

BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEW MEMBERS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you'll find well over 235,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.

There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:
  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates
Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes.

Over 145,000 people have taken part in the Low Carb Program - a 10 week structured education course that is helping people lose weight and reduce medication dependency by explaining the science behind carbs, insulin and GI.

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:
  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to blood glucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic.

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
Take part in Diabetes.co.uk digital education programs and improve your understanding. Most of these are free.

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Hi @Samantha1979 , welcome .

a worry time for him, as well as you.

The diagnosis leaves many of us in the dark those first few days and weeks.

I like the gathering info route your taking.

the Diet doctor site is a great place to start.
and for a little more substance...

I'd say the biggest problem i had was finding out just what i COULD eat, check out the threads like this one.
https://www.diabetes.co.uk/forum/threads/what-have-you-eaten-today.75781/page-1074#post-1951260

It will give you LIVE feedback on what other diabetics are eating.
might help you plan a meal or two for your partner that
A) actually tastes ok
B) actually does some good.

I spent my first month or two eating cereal and bananas, thinking they were doing me good, since found out they 'Spike' my blood sugars and were helping make me feel lousy.
.
Sound like your husband struck gold with you.
Best of luck with proper diagnosis, but i believe the low carb way, can only help regardless of type.

best regards
 
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